Andrew Jon Lightbody, of Sandpoint, Idaho, passed away on April 4, 2025, at the age of 46. Born in Helena, Montana, on November 26, 1978, to Robert (Jay) and Teresa Lightbody, Andy arrived 14 minutes after his twin brother, Matthew.
Andy attended elementary school in East Helena and Helena, and graduated from Helena High School in 1997. He earned a Bachelor of Science in Business Administration from the University of Montana. He was—and always will be—a proud Griz.
His childhood was filled with baseball and football games, wrestling matches, camping trips, boating adventures, and bird hunting. Andy deeply appreciated growing up in Montana. The changing seasons felt almost spiritual to him—especially fall, which he loved most, just like his dad and his brother.
After college, Andy moved to Seattle, where he worked in sales for several tech companies. It was there that he met his wife, Amy Ingram. In 2014, they moved to Sandpoint, Idaho, when Andy joined Kochava. They were thrilled to live in such a beautiful and welcoming community.
On June 3, 2015, Andy and Amy were married on Magens Bay Beach in St. Thomas, Virgin Islands. They welcomed their son, Riggs, in 2016, and their daughter, Tatum, joined the family in 2018. Andy proudly announced that the Lightbody family was complete.
Andy loved that Riggs shared his passion for sports. He cherished the hours spent coaching or playing baseball with his son, and would gladly throw a football or shoot hoops as long as Riggs wanted. They loved watching games together, with Riggs tracking every team’s stats.
Tatum was the light of Andy’s life. His smile would brighten at just the mention of her name.
She’ll tell you she’s a daddy’s girl—and she’s right. She says everyone should know her daddy’s recipe for the best butter noodles. Andy often said she was the kindest, sweetest human being he had ever met.
Andy felt truly blessed to live in Sandpoint. Boating on Lake Pend Oreille with his family brought him joy and peace. He hoped those moments would stay with his children forever. He was proud to be part of Kochava and of its role in the Sandpoint community.
After a long and difficult battle with alcohol addiction, Andy tragically chose to end his life. Though he was a strong man in both stature and spirit, that strength wasn’t enough to overcome this cruel disease. He is missed deeply by those who loved him. The outpouring of love and support from friends, coworkers, and classmates has been a source of great comfort. His family finds peace in believing that Andy is now held in the arms of our Savior, and reunited with his brother, Matthew.
Andy was preceded in death by his twin brother, Matthew; his paternal grandparents, Bob and Pat Lightbody; and his maternal grandparents, Donald and Janice Redmond.
He is survived by his wife, Amy; his children, Riggs and Tatum; his parents, Jay and Teresa Lightbody; his mother-in-law, Trudy Ingram; his aunts and uncles—Mike Lightbody, Mark and Lynn Keller, Pat Redmond, Larry and Debbie Redmond, Kevin and Terri Redmond—and many beloved cousins.
Services to honor Andy’s life will be held in both Montana and Idaho: A funeral Mass will be celebrated at noon on Tuesday, April 22, 2025, at St. Helena Cathedral in Helena, Montana. A reception will follow at Green Meadow Country Club. A Memorial Service will be held at 2 p.m. on Saturday, May 10, 2025, at The Heartwood Center in Sandpoint, Idaho. Please visit www.aswfuneralhome.com to offer a condolence to the family or to share a memory of Andrew.
Service Schedule
Funeral Mass
12:00 p.m.
Tuesday April 22, 2025
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing Street
Helena, Montana 59601
Reception
1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Tuesday April 22, 2025
Green Meadow Country Club
2720 Country Club Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Memorial Service
2:00 p.m.
Saturday May 10, 2025
Heartwood Center
615 Oak Street
Sandpoint, Idaho 83864
Service Schedule
Funeral Mass
12:00 p.m.
Tuesday April 22, 2025
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing Street
Helena, Montana 59601
Reception
1:00 p.m. to 4:30 p.m.
Tuesday April 22, 2025
Green Meadow Country Club
2720 Country Club Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Memorial Service
2:00 p.m.
Saturday May 10, 2025
Heartwood Center
615 Oak Street
Sandpoint, Idaho 83864
Share
Diane Trankel says
It’s hard to know what to say., there are No words, it seems, to help make it better. I’m so sorry for your pain. I’m so sorry for the hurt you must feel. I love you very much Teresa and Jay. You are the Best Aunt and Uncle that my daughter, Christina, could ever have. Thank you for that. 🙂 And the best Mom and Dad for your children. My belief is that they are with their Grandmas and Grandpas in Heaven and they have them in their arms right now. I believe the boys have each other and back in each others arms again. (Grandma Jan and Grandpa Don are the best!, I’m feeling they’ve got this.:) It Doesn’t make it any easier though, for us having to wait for our hugs….. Thinking of you and your family., Diane
Bonnie & Dennis Crawford says
Teresa and Jay, we can’t find the perfect words, but we want you to know that we are holding you both in our thoughts and in our hearts. Hugs and love to you both.
Julie Millam says
Teresa and Jay, My heart broke reading this. I pray for a peace that passes all understanding for you all! Love Julie Millam
judith Palmquist says
Theresa and Jay, We are so sorry to hear this sad news. No words can console right now, but hopefully knowing that others care will help ease your burden. Grief is individual and personal, we pray for strength as you navigate this difficult journey. Prayers, Judy and Blaine Palmquist
Randy and Gail murgel says
Jay and Teresa, we are so sorry to hear about Andy! You both are in our prayers. Sending hugs to all of you.
Laurie Kops says
Teresa and Jay, Amy and children…
Life is so unfair. I have no doubt that Andy loved all of you more than you’ll ever know….he truly fought the good fight. May his generous spirit and love surround you and be with you as you remember him as the man you all cherished so dearly. My heart is with you all.
Bill Houston says
Wow,
One of my kids gone but no way will ever be forgotten. May the Good Lord Bless your whole family. Amen
Kate Settle Ruland says
I’m truly sorry to hear this news.
Deb Cutler Kralicek says
Teresa and Jay,
Please know you have our deepest sympathy in your loss. We know that Andy is reunited with Matthew and especially Don and Jan as well as all other family who has gone before him.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Debbye Jensen says
Oh My! Jay and Teresa: my heart hurts for you. Parents are NOT supposed to bury their children. When I lost my brother to suicide, I was just LOST. I can’t imagine what my mom was dealing with (having to bury, yet another son). I will hold you ALL up in prayer! Prayers for solace, prayers for hope.
Almighty God, help my friends who have lost another child to come to terms with what has happened. May they have constant communion with you during this difficult time and find shelter in Your presence. Holy Spirit of God, teach them how to let go of the pain and allow God to reign in their lives amid the pain. Fill them with the hope of seeing their loved one again by bringing into remembrance scriptures about heaven and eternity. In Jesus’ name, I pray. Amen.
Love you!
Julie & Jim DeMars says
Jay & Teresa,
There aren’t words to convey our sorrow or to ease your pain in any way, so please know that we love you and you are all in our prayers.
Tom/Judy Rolfe says
Theresa and Jay,
We are so very sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Please know we are thinking of you at this difficult time and keeping you in our prayers. Please know that we care.
Carmen Green says
Oh Teresa and Jay I am so deeply saddened by hi loss of life. Words cannot even express that. I am here for you.
As I know you know Love and peace , if that is even possible.
Marty Kloker says
Memories, cherish memories in your heart they are the memories of a lifetime
God Speed and God Bless
Cari Hutchison says
My heart breaks for you, Teresa. May you, Jay, and Andy’s beautiful family find peace and comfort through your faith and cherished memories. I will keep you all in my prayers.
Marlene & Bob says
God will Bless and keep you in his hands.
Dennis Quinn says
Teresa & Jay
My deepest sympathy to both of you and your family. I wish you faith and strength in the days ahead,
Bree green says
Teresa and Jay , so so sorry for your loss , we love you guys dearly and definitely will be in our prayers , I was so thankful to know both your boys , I always loved catching up with Matt when I came to your house , they will be missed by so many !
Staci Gleich - Roberts says
Teresa I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t even imagine the pain in your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always .
Tori and Jamie Gleich says
Teresa, Jay, Larry, Deb and your entire family. We are so very sorry for your loss. Jamie and I extend our deepest condolences. May the Lords perpetual light shine upon him.
Goose and Jan Gregson says
Jay, Teresa and your entire family, we are so so sorry to hear this news…. please know we are thinking of you and pray that your peace will come through in all your memories and beautiful times together….sending you all love and prayers
Curtis Garrett says
Jay and Theresa were the jest parents when my kids were growing up.
Coaching , mentoring, inviting.
The best family any one wanted to know.
Matt and Andy live forever in my memories.
Huge huhs and Tears. Sorry will never be enough
Sally Russell says
This makes my heart hurt for all of you. So hard to lose one son but two, your only two. I am so very sorry.
Thoughts and prayers for the family. All the love. God bless!
Rick Mcalmond says
Jay, Teresa , we are so sorry to hear about Andys passing, please know that Barb and I are thinking of you and all of your family during this difficult time.
Kellie Wier says
Theresa,Jay, and the entire family, my sincerest condolences to you all. May you find strength and peace in healing. Sending you love and prayers.
Lori and Bob Fearon says
Theresa and Jay, our hearts and love go out to you! We are so sorry for your loss and the pain you are feeling. We will hold Andy and the entire family in our prayers. Much Love, Bob and Lori Fearon
Karen Crogan says
Such a tragedy..may his memory be a blessing.
Scott says
Family of Andrew, so sorry for your loss. Jay and Theresa you are in my thoughts during such a difficult time. Scott
Scott St. Clair says
Scott St. Clair
Janet Hedges says
Theresa and Jay, I’m so sorry to hear about Andy. My son Justin talked about Matt and Andy with great respect and admiration not only for their amazing athletic abilities but their kind and caring personalities as well. You are in my thoughts and prayers for some peace and comfort at this extremely difficult time.
Sara Graveley says
Hoping for strength for your family in the coming days, months and years without your beloved son .
May your precious memories sustain your tender hearts .
Thinking of you all with love.
Ron Zeiler says
Very sorry to hear the news about Andy. I can still see in my memories about Andy riding my jet ski standing backwards on the handlebars at Hauser Lake. Jay and Teresa and family you are in our prayers 🙏
Jo and Paul Bryson says
Jay and Teresa,
Holding you in our prayers asking God to give you strength and comfort as you begin to navigate life without Andy. Our hearts are just aching for you. Sending you all our love and compassion 😢💔
Carie Jardine says
Hearing of Andy’s passing was nothing short of heartbreaking. We were his neighbours on Lakeshore Drive. We watched Andy and Amy begin their new life in Sandpoint. Watched Andy’s happiness in simple tasks like mowing the lawn (after having lived in Seattle). Enjoyed his monthly dips in the lake, no matter the season. Watched them get married then watched as Andy became a proud dad. We are grateful to have known Andy and to have been able to observe so many joys he had held. Our hearts go out to you. Carie and Andy Jardine
Dan McGowan says
Teresa and Jay – So sorry to hear the sad news. Carol and I are including your family in our prayers……God Bless.
Kryss kuntz says
Theresa and Jay and family.
My heart hurts for you all right now. May Gods loving arms surround you all in the coming days, months and years! I am sure you all will save a special place in your hearts for Andy and Mathew.
Sending lots of hugs ♥️🤟
Brett Ueland says
My deepest condolences to Teresa, Jay, Amy and the kids. Our hearts break for each of you. I will always love both Matt and Andy’s devilish grins and how much fun we had together as I tagged along with my big sis and her buddies!
Jan and Jim Anderson says
Theresa, Jay and Andy’s family, we pray that you will be carried through this difficult time with the peace that only our Heavenly Father can give you. We are so very sorry for the loss of your beloved Andy. May the Lord bless you and keep you in His care. Jan and Jim Anderson
Curt and Ashley McKay says
From middle school through college, Andy and Matt were larger-than-life figures to everyone I knew. These two guys were incredible athletes, looked like movie stars, and had a presence that was impossible to ignore. They were the kind of people everyone looked up to, whether it was on the field or just hanging out. Andy was one of those guys who seemed destined for greatness, and even though we weren’t super close, I always admired him. I’m really sorry he’s gone. He made a real impact on everyone who knew him, and I’ll always remember him for the way he stood out.
Deb Crawford says
Jay and Theresa, I am so very sorry for your loss. May your memories of Andy forever live in your hearts.
Deb Taylor Crawford
Liz (Ahern) Jackson says
I did not know your precious sons personally, but we were in high school together and I vividly remember their presence and beautiful smiles. I remember being almost starstruck when I saw them for the first time—as I had heard about them for years. I remember them as being genuinely kind and caring. I was so saddened at Matt’s passing years ago. As a mother to twin boys myself, I understand that deep twin bond and my heart ached for Matt’s twin left behind. I would imagine Andy never got over that profound grief —how could he? My own extended family has been devastated by both alcoholism and suicide and I am so very sorry for this unimaginably heavy cross you carry as parents. There are no words to adequately express the deep sorrow I feel for you. Please be assured of my constant and continued prayers for you, as well as Andy’s wife and dear children—and all who loved your sons. God is always good, and so loving and merciful—and I know He will bring good from these heartbreaking tragedies. You are not alone in your grief. May the prayers of those who care about your family carry you all through this darkness until you can see the light again. May God bless you and bring you the peace and comfort only He can. Jesus I trust in you. 💙💙
Marlene Dupree says
Dear Theresa and Jay..my heart is aching for your recent loss. I miss all of your family who has passed. Always will keep Jan and Donald close to my heart ..I loved them both. My prayers are with you and your fsmily and blessings and love to all of you.
Terry Beaver says
Theresa, Jay and Family,
There are no words to express your loss; I’ll not attempt, but there are a few words which helped me.
“Mourn not of his death, but rejoice in that he was.”
I am so, so sorry for you and all of the beautiful lives left behind.
Terry Beaver
Collette & Harry Hanson says
Dear Teresa, Jay, Amy and family,
Our hearts are breaking with yours. May God hold all of you in the palm of his hands. All our love, Collette & Harry
Debbie Card Morrison says
Dear Teresa, Jay and family,
I’m so incredibly sorry for the loss of your son. My heart breaks for you. I pray that in time your memories will comfort you. You are in my prayers.
Dan Senecal says
Jay, Teresa, and Family,
There are no words that can bring you comfort during this incredible loss… but, I pray that you can feel the love that flows from the entire Helena community! May God give you the strength to get through the next day, month and years…
John & Vicki Sandford says
Teresa & Jay,
So sorry, our condolences. You guys are in our thoughts & prayers.
Walt Jones and Cindy Sangray Jones says
Our dearest friends,
Words fail to express the depth of sorrow we feel upon hearing about the loss of your beautiful Andy.
Andy’s presence in this world mattered deeply. The light he brought to your lives and to those around him cannot be extinguished, even as you face this darkest of times. As you know, the bond between parent and child transcends even death, and I know the love you shared with him will remain eternally in your hearts.
There are no right words, no adequate comfort we can offer in the face of such profound loss. Please know that we here for you both – to listen, to remember, to sit in silence, or to help in any practical way you might need. We know that grief has no timeline, and we will be beside you through all of its manifestations in the days, months, and years ahead.
Be gentle with yourselves as you navigate this painful journey. Allow yourselves to feel whatever emotions arise without judgment. Honor Andy’s memory in whatever ways bring you comfort.
We hold you both in our hearts and will continue to do so as you walk your paths moving forward.
With our deepest love and compassion,
Walt Jones and Cindy Sangray Jones
Julie and Leo Ward says
“Measurable Grief Succumbs to Immeasurable Love”! I believe that the love we share with those we have lost lives on in us that are left behind! The souls and the spirits of your precious sons will live forever in your hearts!
Rick OConnell says
Jay, Teresa and Amy. So very sorry to hear about Andy. Words fail so here’s a big hug to all. Know my thoughts are with you.
Rick O and family.
Debbie Davis says
Teresa and Jay,
There are no words to help with the sadness you are feeling. May your treasured memories of Andy remain in your heart forever. Hugs and love .
Debbie Ekman Davis
Julie and Lee Graham says
Theresa and Jay,
We are so very sorry. Sending our love and prayers.
Joe Adams says
I am so sorry to hear about this tremendous loss. My twin brother, Jake and I walked past the Lightbody’s house many times on our way home from school. We would sometimes pop inside their garage, where we’d usually find both Matt and Andy sharing ping pong games and letting us hang out and play..I remember that being a lot of fun and Matt and Andy were always so cool to have us.
Paul Martello says
Jay and Theresa, sorry to read about Andy. Word can not express your loss. Just keep all the memories close to your heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.
Karen & Jerry Lundin says
Jay & Theresa, we’re so sorry to read about Andy! Sending our deepest condolences to you and your family at this very sad and difficult time! Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Roy Moreno says
Jay and Theresa my deepest condolences may God help you through the pain your feeling
Curtis Stanghill says
So sorry for you loss. Prayers for the family and children
Donna Whitaker says
Jay & Teresa, I’m so very sorry to hear of your beloved sons passing. Words are so inadequate. I hope you find solace during this difficult time. 🙏😔
Patty Wood says
Jay, Theresa and family,
We are heartbroken for all of you with the loss of your precious Andy. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Sending love and hugs for peace and comfort in the difficult days ahead. Randy and Patty Wood
Shannon Bright-Meyer says
Jay, Theresa and Family,
I was so heartbroken to learn of the passing of Andy.. I just don’t know what to say. Please know you our in my thoughts and prayer’s during this most horrible time. God Bless
Peggy Quinn Newman says
Jay, Theresa and family,
So very sorry to read of Andy’s death and know you have to walk this journey of grief once again. Holding you all in my heart and prayers for peace and comfort. Remember the blessings that Andy brought to your life and the love he shared with you. His light touched many. May he rest in Gods love now.
Daniel Folan says
My deepest and sincerest condolences to Andrew’s family on his tragic and untimely passing.
I and my colleagues in Dublin had the pleasure of Andrew’s company on a number of occasions down the years on our visits to Sandpoint. We remember Andrew only as a gentleman and with his larger-than-life presence, charisma and charm evident to us during our short time together, we can’t begin to imagine the sense of loss being felt by his loved ones at this terrible time. May God grant eternal rest to his gentle soul.
Kevin and Anne Bartsch says
Teresa, Jay and Family- We are so sorry for your loss. May God’s peace wrap around you and comfort you during this difficult time.
Audrey and Tim Kelly says
Sending our deepest sympathies to the entire family on this sad and heartbreaking loss. Please know you are in our prayers.
Susan Hughes says
Teresa, Jay and Family. May God Bless your heart as you go through this hard time. Both Andy and Matt were so fortunate to have you as a mom and dad. What beautiful boys. You are always in our thoughts and prayers.
Dan and Sandi Benson says
Jay,Teresa and family. Sandi and I were shocked to hear of Andy’s passing. Keep all the good memories in your hearts and stay strong for each other. Our thoughts are with you all.
Dani Martin says
I am so very sorry for the loss of Andy. My heart truly breaks for you and your family. Growing up with both boys near to my family, childhood and mid aged years…I will always remember those smiles, funny remarks and all the love you both have and had for them always. They will hold a special place in the hearts of all of us that knew them . Please know you are in my thoughts & prayers always.
Love Dani and family
Cindy says
Jay,Teresa,and Andy’s wife and children,
We have no words that can convey the sadness our hearts felt when we heard of Andy’s passing. To all those who loved him our hearts are broken for you.
We know you are of strong faith and we pray that will carry you through this most difficult time. May your beautiful memories sustain you and fill your hearts over and over where there is sadness.
We understand the the hold addiction can have on a person,it is tormenting. Loved ones are helpless. Andy knows he was loved unconditionally.❤️
Know we pray for your family and we are sincerely saddened for Andy’s family,loved ones and friends. God’s peace be with all of you.🙏🏻
Cindy and Jim Lieberg
Brandi Spangler says
I am so sorry for your loss. Your boys were a grade behind my identical twin sister and I. I heard of Andy quite often but didn’t know until this that he had a twin. My twin also lost her life to this disease and it’s difficult to think about. I am SO sorry you have to live without either of them. My mom has lost 2 of three of us kids and now I am her only remaining child. I know how hard it was for Andy to live without Matt because I am living that right now. I will be praying for you, though I don’t know you, I know the heartache and emptiness of loss. I know your boys were greatly loved in this community; hearing stories here recently of them. May God bring you comfort and peace until you meet them again.
Dave and Thea Van Nice says
We’re so sorry to hear about the passing of Andy. Sending our love.
Pam and Tony Murnion says
Dear Jay and Teresa,
We’re so sorry for the loss of your son. May time heal your hearts and memories comfort your souls.
Cheryl Gillespie says
Jay and Theresa: Bless you in this impossibly
difficult time. The twins were such beautiful
lights in the world. They were such a joy to their friends
We delighted in knowing the wonderful group
Of friends in their class. They were special to our daughter Erin and to us. We wanted to be at the service to honor
them but a Dr appt is a conflict. Love. Cheryl& Fritz
Gillespie and Erin.
Sherry Cladouhos says
Teresa and Jay and family
We are sorry for your loss and are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
Mary Cristiani says
Teresa and Jay,
Our deepest sympathy to you and all your family for your incredible loss. We pray that you find comfort in all the love that surrounds you and that you find peace in the beautiful memories. We loved hearing about Andrew’s life- what an amazing person.
Mary and Dean Cristiani
Michael Casey says
My heart goes out to your entire family. I know nothing can be said or done to take away the pain that goes along with the loss. Please know that we care and are praying for all of you.
Love and prayers,
Mike and Chris in heaven,
Carol Hunter says
We are so sorry. Know that our thoughts are with you.
Chris and Carol Hunter
Elinor Edmunds Miller says
Teresa and Jay,
My heart breaks for you during this most difficult time. While the pain will always be there, so will the love you shared and the memories, so treasure the love and memories, now and always. Hold them in your heart. You’re in my prayers, now and always.
With much love, Elinor Edmunds Miller
Sue Wilke says
Dear Theresa, I am so sorry about you losing your son. Many, prayers for you and your family.
Gary and Dee Dee Fischer says
Teresa and Jay, we were shocked and heartbroken to read about the loss of Andy. It is impossible for Dee Dee and I to comprehend what you are going through and we are at a loss for words. We can only offer our condolences and prayers, which probably seem empty and trite for you right now. Please stay strong and lean on each other and somehow get through this. You have always been resilient and have made the most out of the hard things that life has laid on your doorstep. Peace and comfort for all of you is our prayer right now. We are also very sad because we will be out of town next week and will not be able to attend Andy’s memorial service. Know that we will be thinking of all of you.
Jim & Lynne Maierle says
Your boys are @ PEACE in the arms of the LORD
Doug Ungerman says
Jay & Theresa, My deepest simpathies on this terrible time for you. I wish for you to find strength and hope through this impossible journey. Our hearts break for you all.
Doug Gwenette Ungerman
Marvin and Janet St Clair says
Jay and Teresa, we’re heart torn to read of your loss. You two have always held a very special place in my heart. Our sincerest condolences and of course all our love from afar!
Julie DalSoglio says
Teresa, Jay, Amy and family:
Our deepest condolences for your loss. So many people are grieving for you, we hope you feel surrounded by this community of love.
Julie and Mike DalSoglio
Dini says
I am saddened for your loss and was happy to be a part of his young life. Praying for you and your family.