Our beautiful son, Jackson Paul Paige, Jack for short, took his life on February 1, 2015.
He was a Junior at Helena High School where he was active in the Philharmonic Choir, he greatly appreciated his lunchroom buddies, and he enjoyed being a class clown.
When younger, football was his passion (Go Broncos). But then came Rugby . . . oh how he loved it so. His latest passion was bodybuilding (for the record, it is playfully added that ‘No. He was NOT on steroids.’).
A special THANK YOU – Jacob, Matthew, Scott, Dawson, Jake, Alex, and many others – for your friendship with our Jack.
Our Jack: Your hugs, your I love you’s, your laughter, and your good nature will be hugely missed by many – especially your family: Duane and Cari (parents); Brothers Ben Paige, Tyler Fuss, Caleb (with Arika and Logan) Paige, Ryan Fuss, Chad Paige, and Mandy (with Scott) Nevitt; Grandpas, Grandmas, Aunts, Uncles, and Cousins.
You were the bestest biggest brother ever. We were blessed and we thank you for coming into our life. And “No . . . Jack . . . We love YOU more”.
To offer a condolence to the family or to share a memory of Jackson please visit below.
Service Schedule
Visitation
Noon to 9:00 p.m.
Thursday February 5, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Thursday February 5, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Friday February 6, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Immedialey following the funeral service
Friday February 6, 2015
Social Center of Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Service Schedule
Visitation
Noon to 9:00 p.m.
Thursday February 5, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m.
Thursday February 5, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Funeral Service
11:00 a.m.
Friday February 6, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Immedialey following the funeral service
Friday February 6, 2015
Social Center of Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana 59602
Share
Matt Hartnett says
We have a 1,000 memories of you and wished we could have had a 1,000 more. You were a son & a brother in our family. We love you Jack. You will forever be missed.
Most happy memory-The leading role in a play at EVMS. When you ate the food and still had to speak. Laughing through it all.
Austin Miller says
Well man for the little time I was lucky enough to have you in my life it was a blast have fun wherever your at because you deserve it. Austin
Nathan Hartnett says
Hey bud I have know u for my entire I was lucky to have u in my life I was safe to say that u are my brother rest in piece brother
Nathan Hartnett says
Peace sorry
Nathan Hartnett says
I ment life
Jade Erickson says
You really were special Jackson. I have known you for so long, I lost count how many years it’s been. We always laughed and joked around in culinary. You knew how to make someone smile without even trying. I remember when you would see me in the halls and we would just start talking an you would walk me to class. But the one thing I want you to know is, you’re my family. I looked up to you as a brother. I sure do love you so much Jackson. Rest in peace big guy. I’ll see you again someday.
Hallie Hartnett says
Jackson I’ve known you since we were little kids and I miss the good old day when it was me, you, and Matthew against the world. You were my best friend then and you always will be my best friend. I’ll miss you.
Richard Deschamps says
Well Jackson I never really talked to you a lot but my best memory of you was crosstown we sorta talked and you seamed Luke an awesome guy I honestly looked forward to taking to you more
You will be missed dearly RIP
Nancy White says
Jackson you will be greatly missed by all who knew you and those who didn’t. You have touched many without even knowing it. You’ve touched those deep in their hearts and you will be missed.
Nancy White, Josh Schlicht and Caite Schlicht
JoAnne & Doug Baum says
Our prayers are with all the family ….it is never easy to lose a child or sibling and it rips your heart out when this happens……please know you are all held high in our prayers and as neighbors we offer any assistance to you….please do not hesitate to call
Jordan Marks says
Rest In Peace Jackson I hope you will always look down on us in heaven
Meirya says
i just wanted to say u were always positive and I wish I could of gotten to know u better and u were the last person I would think to take there life but u were awesome and an awesome singer and u are in a better place in the form of an angel watching over all of us so see u some day love u buddy
Tasha Raulston says
well Jackson here comes goodbye, I haven’t known you for very long we talked a couple times and when we talked it was a blast you made me laugh and smile and that’s what you were best at and that’s something that is going to be hard to let go of. You were a great young man and very handsome and you will be very very missed by everyone! You have touched everyone’s hearts. We all love you so much and you were a very strong young man and your muscles were HUGE!!! Love you Jackson and ill see you when I see you!!! And prays go out to jacks family!!
Lanna Hoover says
well i didn’t know you as well as other people and you where basically the life of choir and Philharmonic MISSES you. i wish i would have got to know you better you made everyone laugh so hard doing your Barbie Girl song we all LOVE and MISS you very much jack!!!!!
and much love towards jacks family!
Paul Irwin says
Jack, I remember that one birthday party when we went geo caching, how much you loved the activity. I remember dueling with cap guns, and I remember laughing the entire time… Dude Helena won’t be the same without you. You are already missed. May God walk with you and your family. Thanks for being a true friend to everyone you met.
Cheyenne Robin says
Jackson. You made my days brighter. Made me smile a little bigger. And laugh a little louder. This isn’t goodbye because I know I will see you again. Until that day comes please watch down on us all, and keep us all safe. We miss you so much, but we know you’re no longer in pain. Love you. Them you for the memories. I’ll keep them forever.
Vanessa Brown says
Cari and Duane, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart is breaking for you. Will hold you and your family in my prayers
Hayley Russell says
Jackson I just wanted to say that you were the most amazing person that I knew even though I didn’t know you for to long I miss seeing you walk around the halls with your headphones in or in the weight room and in chior and when you wod crack jokes before our concerts you made days even. Brighter you could put a smile on someone’s face anytime of the day we all love you miss you thank you for memories that I will keep forever
Amanda Yancy says
Jack. You will always have a special place in my heart, thank you for always being a friend. Your smile brightened my day, your jokes made me laugh like no other. I remember you playing Ichabod Crane, at EVMS! Your hilarious and charming personality is something we all will cherish and remember through out our lives. Thank you for blessing me with your friendship and love… Ps: “fight me!” (He used to pretend to fight me whenever he saw me and then he’d say just kidding and wrap me in a hug) PPS I hope you still get to wear them bro-tanks up in heaven! Hehehe love and miss you bud.
Caleb Friddle says
Jackson, you were a pretty good friend. We never hung out as much as we should have, but everytime we did it was a blast. I’ll always remember when we had weightlifting together. You’d always pick on me about not being as big as you when it came to lifting, but I knew you were always kidding. We always talked about life and mostly how much we love Rugby. After your accident last year everyone was bummed when we found out you couldn’t play Rugby again.. You told me this year that you were gonna help coach us this year and I got really excited because you were still doing what you loved. When the time comes I hope we will see eachother again. In the mean time the Hooligans will play hard in your memory for years to come. R.I.P Jackson. Kia kaha.
Bransun Mitchell says
Jackson, you were an awesome friend. Your jokes were always funny. Singing next to you was always a pleasure. I’m going to miss that smile every morning. You never left anyone from the heart.
Dustin Tecca says
I know we haven’t talked in quiet a while but we grew up together and made multiple memories you will be greatly missed my prayers
Kura Willwerth says
Well Jackson here come goodbye
Kura Willwerth says
Jackson, you were one of my really good friend, we hung out a couple of times but thts its, but when we did hangout you made me laugh really hard, so hard i cried, but when i found out about this i cried for real. You were like my brother, you were always here for me, you were there when i was down when i was happy even when i was really hiper. Im going to miss you to Peices!!! It sucks that this is how i have to say goodbye… I’ll see ya up there one day bud! Go Broncos!!!!(: i already miss you! I love ya Jack
Kura Willwerth says
We didnt really hangout but we messages eachother a lot! Im gunna miss you
Ty Ridgeway says
Jackson, I had the privilege to have you as my home room student and Social Studies student when you were in 6th grade. I will always remember you coming to class each day with a smile on your face and how you always made me laugh. I always enjoyed talking Bronco football with you. I will always remember the time (last week) when you came up to me at the gym and said, “Hi Mr. Ridgeway.” We had a great talk catching up and I enjoyed learning about what you’ve done since middle school. You truly were a great kid. We will miss you Jackson Paige.
Lisa Kleeman says
Dear Cari and family, there are no words that can change the pain and loss you are feeling. I am so sorry and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let me know. with my deepest sympathy.
Max Mader says
Jackson, I remember almost everyday you me Rilan, Nathan and Matt would play football in a field full of dirt and weeds. We would laugh and play and make jokes and now I miss those days. I just talked to you last week. You are a great young man and will be greatly missed. You were an amazing athetle very smart and fun to be around. Rest in peace Jackson.
Morgan Lilliahna Tielking says
Hey i know its been awhile but i do have to say i miss you. You were always nice to me, middle school wasnt the easiest for me and no matter what was wrong you would always be sure to say hi to me and it made my day bearable . I so wish u could have been there to just say hi to you maybe it would have helped just like you helped me. Rest in peace Jackson. I hope paradise is so much better!
Patty Wood says
Cari and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my prayers are with all of you at this time. With heartfelt sympathy.
Aunt Wendi says
My Dearest Nephew Jack, I love you with the deepest soul of my heart. We will never understand the choice you last made… why the people in your life were not able to guide you from harm to safety. You meant so much to this world.. and never again will we bring comfort to love and guide you. You took that from us and yourself… we only know that you are with us in spirit and left with the memories of your sweet short life of 17 years. Your beloved family and friends.. love and comfort you.. I do hope.. you do find paradise and your are at peace.. Forever love.. Aunt Wendi
Clay Pipinich says
So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Scott Ireland says
Jackson you will truly be missed. I had the pleasure of having you in my class as a fifth grader. I remember you being such a nice kid and teasing you about looking like a kid on a box of Lucky Charms cereal. We had many conversations about football and could never seem to convert you to become a Cowboys fan. I had the pleasure to visit with you this summer at the fair. We talked about rugby and various other things. My thoughts go out to your family and friends.
Cathy Cherry says
Cari and family,
Tom and I are so sorry for your heartbreaking loss. You are in our prayers.
Sylvia Lamping says
Jackson I also had you in my class. My wonderful study hall class at EVMS. You always came in smiling and always laughed at the basketball game with rolled up paper into the trash can we would have at the end of class. I believe you were one of the boys that could throw that paper the farthest and make it in. I have some wonderful memories of you and I will always miss your smiling face.
Jennie Younkin says
Cari, Ryan and the whole family,
I am so sorry and am praying for strength and comfort.
Ellen Kauzlarich says
Jackson ( Cobra),
I will never forget that day in Missoula at that big 7’s tournament. You took the biggest hit straight to your head and oh man that was not pretty(; but when I ran over I said ” oh my god what happened!?” You just looked up and gave me the biggest grin in the world. You took it like a champ and so many people admire that. I miss you already, it was just a couple days ago that I saw your smiley face and talked. I’m looking forward to the day I can see you again, but until then…. Tear that Pitch up for me. Rest in Peace Cobra
Alex Walden says
Jackson, I will never forget the first day I ever officially met you. It was one of the first days of rugby practice and I was excited to see all of the new players that were going to join the team this year. I saw a few hopeful faces in the crowd. What stuck out most was this blonde haired kid with a shirt on that read “Cobra Jet” on the front with a really neat graphic of a cobra. I never knew his real name so I figured I’d just call him “Cobra Jet”, later shortened to just “Cobra”. After a few practices I saw that this guy had some serious potential. He would run through defenders and take on even the biggest opponents that got in his way. Cobra was so fast and smart as a player on the field. From this moment on I knew the high school rugby team was going to have a very bright and successful future in the hands of this kid. Eventually I would see this guy all over school whether it was in theater class or in the halls. Not only was Cobra dedicated to his school work and sports, he was also dedicated to choir. I remember always seeing that same blonde kid from rugby singing his heart out with the fellow members of philharmonic choir. It didn’t stop there though. I would see Jackson at the gym almost every time I went. He started lifting really hard due to not being able to play physical sports anymore. When I asked him if he planned on helping out the rugby team this year he told me he really wanted to be the conditioning coach since he couldn’t tackle or do anything too physically demanding. I thought this was an incredible way to contribute. Even though he was three years younger than me I always looked up to him because I have never met anyone with so much heart and potential. I figured I could learn something from someone so tough and dedicated. I never really called Jackson by his real name and that is because I always saw him as something more than just another kid on the block. He was Cobra! The quickest and fiercest kid no matter what sport he was in. I will always remember that huge goofy smile he gave me when I gave him the nickname “Cobra”. It might seem insignificant to others but I felt a true bond with my teammate and friend Jackson Paige, also known as Cobra. Rest in peace my brother Cobra, your fierce determination and influence on others will live forever!!!
Tracy & Mike Anderson says
Dear Cari, Duane and family,
We are so sorry to hear this sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Mike & Tracy Anderson
Jenna Hurray says
I remember being in Philharmonic with you last year. You had such an amazing voice and I loved listening to you sing. When I recently joined Capital City Health Club, I would talk to you, and I always felt happier afterwards. I miss you Jackson, and I know that so many others do.
Family of Ron, Marie, Raina, and Erin Billett says
Dear Pink and Duane, I especially empathize with you and those in the household……………… It is touching to see the love and admiration for Jackson. I knew him as a nice smart person. I can see, from the outpouring of memories, that he was much more than that. I am thankful for the time he was with us.
Sheila A says
Dear Pink and Duane, I would like to say I am so, so sorry for the loss of your beloved son Jackson. You may not know me personally Pink, but I am a friend of your brother Ron and remember speaking to you on the phone about 6-7 years ago when Ron wanted to introduce me to you. I was so saddened when he told me the news today and felt the need to tell you how sorry I am. I do not have to be a best friend and/or family member to sympathize with what you are going through as a mother. I cannot begin to imagine the pain you are all experiencing and can say that as a person who truly believes in God, I hope and pray that He is able to provide all who loved Jack so much an outpouring of peace, that peace which passes all human understanding. From reading all the wonderful things that people have to say about you son, he was a wonderful person and you were both great parents to have raised such a wonderful child. May God be with you during this unbelievably difficult time and may all the outpouring of love and empathy envelope you so that you are able to cope with the pain. No, unfortunately, the pain may never go away but with love and support from the people who are around you, you just have to take it day by day. May Jack rest in peace and may he be that guardian angel who whispers to you that he is always with you, in your hearts forever and that, nothing and no one can take away. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Sheila
Danell Wilson says
Didn’t know Jackson so well. But death is always hard, especially when it happens at this age. We will miss you Jackson, more than you probably knew.
Chase S says
I enjoyed being in school with Jackson from the time I met him and the time that I spent with him. He was really into weight lifting, and before the second semester I told him that I was getting into a weight lifting class and that I was going to be just like him, big and strong with a six pack and nice muscles. I will miss him dearly and he will be in my my heart for all of my life. Your son, brother and friend will always be with you. He is at peace now. R.I.P Jack I’ll miss you.
Jon says
I am so sorry for your loss, I did not know Jackson, but it’s always sad when someone passes!!
Prayers to you and your family!! <3
kelly schroeder rhimer says
To the family of Jackson, I do not mean to be intrusive, but felt that I needed to acknowledge your sons life. I did not know Jackson nor any of your family. But I must tell you that I have the utmost respect for your decision to list Jacksons passing as a suicide. Lossing such a young man is difficult enough for your family, but to list the suicide had to be a very difficult decision. It will help to save lives. Lost a family member to suicide, and I do not believe there is anything more difficult. From all the messages to you and your family, sounds like he was an exceptional young man. My prayers and thoughts are with your son Jackson and to all who Loved and cared for this young man. Thank You
Dori Wetherelt and family says
Dear Paige family,
Jackson was in my daughter Tia’s band class. We went through a situation with someone close to us passing away due to suicide last year. Our hearts ache for you all and our prayers are with you even though we do not know you. They will continue to be with you in the months and years to come.
God has your Jackson in His loving arms now. He will be completely happy and taken care of.
I pray that God carrying each of you in His loving arms.
I read a quote not too long ago regarding grief that I would like to share with you “A part of me went with you, a part of you stayed with me I am forever changed, Your life continues with me, Your love lives on with me, You are forever with me”
Hold on to these sentiments, these truths.
God bless you all.
Ilda Martinez says
I don’t know what to say to you. There are really no words that seem adequate at a time like this. I cannot imagine what you are going through but my heart and thoughts are with you.
My son was in class with Jackson. He told me how smart Jackson was and how one time in class the teacher put a problem up on the board and while other students took out paper to attempt to figure out the answer, Jackson simply figured it all out in his head.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
Marla says
I never personally met “Jack” – still as a parent, my heart hurts for your family. Just wanted to let you know some one is praying the LORD will give you comfort during this time.
Ryan Fuss says
I just want to thank all of you for your condolences for this troubling time. Jackson was a good man that was headed in a great direction. The family and I could not wait to see where he would be ten years from now; all we know is it would have been something spectacular.
Once again…..Thank you all
Broken says
It’s been seven horrifying months since your passing. There is not a day that goes by that a tear does not fall from my eyes! There are days that I fill that I just can’t go on, the thought that I could/should have done something, what did I miss?? I fill like such a loser, that I let you slip through my fingers. I come across a photo and there a gusher from my eyes, I scream your name, I ask WHY. I still have no answers, and that’s the hardest thing. I know I have seen you at the bottom of the stairs; I want to say I’m sorry for not being there for you, I miss your hugs!!!!!!!! The day I found you laying in the snow it was like my heart and soul was ripped from my body. I lost total control! Living has become hard, I lost confidence in myself. I miss you SO much!!
Jeanne Bartlett, Dragonfly Project Volunteer says
I read on-line of Jack’s passing. My sincere sympathies. May the love of family & friends comfort you in your grief.
In the bottom of an old pond lived some grubs who could not understand why none of their groups ever came back after crawling up the stems of the lilies to the top of the water. They promised each other that the next one who was called to make the upward climb would return to tell what happened to him. Soon one of them felt an urgent impulse to seek the surface; he rested himself on the top of a lily pad and went through a glorious transformation which made him a dragonfly with beautiful wings. In vain he tried to keep his promise flying back and forth over the pond. He peered down at his friends below. Then he realized that even if they could see him they would not recognize such a radiant creature as one of their number.
The fact that we cannot see our loved ones or communicate with them after the transformation, which we call death, is no proof that they cease to exist. -Walter Dudley Cavert (used with permission)
Lost says
Lost:
Jack I haveing a rough day, I MISSING YOU SO MUCH!! There’s days I don’t know where to turn. I just want to find a dark place and hide from it all, I wish you come to me again. I need to see you! I feel so alone. I LOVE YOU!!
Cari (with Duane) Paige says
Dear Broken and Lost: It’s hard for you to talk about this in person. We don’t talk about it much anymore because the pain and grief we both feel ricochets between us. Your posts make me cry. I just want you to know that I love you. And I love being your wife. You are an awesome husband and father. Ben needs us. And Ben deserves the best possible life we can give him. Ben is watching us. We MUST do our best to ensure Ben’s mental well-being is healthy. Our young adult kids are successfully making their way in this world. Ben will too. I am committed to that. As I am sure are you. Love, Cari
Tears says
Today I hunt, my eyes are filled with tears, missing you hugs and smile. I must remain strong, but there still are times that I fall into a dark place and close out the world. But Mom and your brother kept me in the light. Love and miss you. :(-
Cari says
Tears: I got teary because of your latest post. I pop in here now and then because I miss him like crazy too. We can do this. We have to do this. For Ben. For our other kids. For ourselves. I love you Duane.
LOVE YOU says
Another Christmas is here, it doesn’t get any easier as time passes. There’s not a day that pass that you are not on my mind, and tears fill my eyes. You will never be forgotten. Love you so! !
Just Here says
Having a hard day, trying to smile, but when I’m along my hart cry”s out for for you. I just want hold you and tell you I love you! I want to see you again “PLEASE”
Cari says
Hey Just Here. I cried on my way home from work yesterday. I am crying now from reading your post. I understand your pain. You are not alone. And this world is a better place because you are Here. I love you. Ben loves you. All of the other kids love you. We need you because you are so fantastic.
Just want the Pain to Stop says
Jack I’m ready to come be with you, my world has come to the end! PLEASE come and talk to me, I need you more then ever now. I have another horrible tragedy, I just want the pain to stop! Please talk to me, tell me anything is fine there. and I will happy join you. I’m selling and giving everything away. Come to me take me with you. Ben will be taken care of.
Paige Duane says
It’s another Year with out you , I MISS YOU I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, I’m so SORRY I wasn’t there for you. I love you. My LIFW is SHIT with out you! I so empty inside! ! I have thoutht of ending it all, but you keep telling me I’m need here? Tell me why!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Grace says
It’s taken me years to think of even the right things to say I miss you every day I was so lucky to have memories with you and one that will always be my favorite is I was so nervous to have gotten a solo in the philharmonic choir and I got lucky to have you as my second person to sing the solo with and when we had to first start practicing I said I was to nervous and you told me you would donkey kick me if I didn’t try and that will always stay with me so thank you Jackson for being my reason to keep singing
Dad says
Happy Birthday my SON. I love you and miss you so much! I think you you EVERY DAY! I LOVE YOU! !