On Thursday, June 4, 2020, at the age of 66, Jane Susan Fisher passed away at her home in Montana City. Born on December 29, 1953, in Great Falls, Montana, she was the second child and only daughter of Roland Keith and Jacqueline Jean (Dartman) Fisher.
Jane loved nature and showed an unmatched tenderness toward all living things. She found solace in the outdoors, especially in the water and on the ski slopes of Montana. She revelled in the changes each season brought to her garden and welcomed the company of the birds and the fawns of the spring, as well as the elk that bedded near her home each fall. A lifelong bookworm, Jane shared her passion for literature with her father, her brothers, and her daughters.
Jane graduated from Helena High School in 1972. She received her B.A. in Psychology from the University of Montana in 1977, her M.A. in Psychology from Western Kentucky University in 1979, and, after completing an internship at Didi Hirsch Community Mental Health Center in Los Angeles in 1981, her Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from the University of Montana in 1985. She was a practicing Clinical Psychologist in Helena for over 30 years—with Mental Health Services, Inc., the Family Psychological Center, and as a partner in The Broadway Center. The unique sisterhood she nurtured with the “Broadway Babes” was steadfast and will be everlasting.
Those who knew Jane were blessed by her tremendous generosity. She gave selflessly and had exceptional taste. She wore her heart on her sleeve and made sure that her friends, family, and colleagues felt loved and cared for. She was incredibly close with her mother, whose love and support shaped the way she raised her twin daughters, Lauren Korn and Alicia Crepps. Jane was not a boastful woman, but she was extremely proud of her girls. She loved her daughters’ partners, Colin and J.T., as her own.
Jane is preceded in death by her father, Roland “Rollie” Fisher (Helena, Montana). She is survived by her mother, Jacqueline “Jackie” Jean Fisher (Helena, Montana); her brothers John Fisher (Lynda) of Stevensville, Montana, and Jim Fisher (Marcy) of Frenchtown, Montana; and her daughters, Lauren Korn (Colin) of Helena, Montana, and Alicia Crepps (J.T.) of Helena, Montana. She is also survived by many cousins, nieces, and nephews, all of whom she loved endlessly.
A private memorial service will be held for close family members on Monday, June 15, 2020, at 11:00 a.m., and live streamed for the public on St. Paul’s United Methodist Church’s YouTube channel. Jane’s family requests that community members offer their condolences at www.aswfuneralhome.com. Each memory or condolence entered will correspond to a candle lit during the memorial service.
Donations in memoriam can be made online to The Friendship Center or to the Lewis & Clark Humane Society in Helena.
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Sandi Meyers says
To Jane’s family,
I have known Jane about 20 years and she was one of the most caring, compassionate ladies I have known. She was always here for me. No matter how many miles I lived from her, if I lived on the other side of the US and needed a “shoulder to cry on” , all I had to do was call her and she was there to listen and cheer me up!! What an awesome, beautiful lady!! I am going to miss her SO much! There will never be another Jane!!! Rest in peace my special friend.
Mary Duede says
Jane was a 1972 Helena High Bengal Classmate. Although we lost track over the years and saw one another mainly
at reunions, I will always remember her as a tall, stately, caring and very intelligent woman. May she rest in peace and our deep condolences to her family.
John E. Andrew says
Jane, thank you so much for being the compassionate, kind, caring person that you were. You shared so much knowledge and wisdom to so many that were fortunate to know you. Godspeed Jane!
Mary Chronister says
Jane was one of the finest people I have ever known. I learned so much from her. I considered her to be one of the best therapists in Montana, if not the best.
Barbara A Schultz says
Barb A. Schultz,
Jane Fisher was truly a blessing in my life. She was a wonderful listener, and always founds ways to encourage people. She will be missed. I pray her family will find comfort and be comforted.
Kathy M Schmidt says
Jane was happy, cheerful, and fun loving. I have many memories of her growing up. She had a wonderful intellect with a mind that was sharp as a tack. Her pride and joy were her girls. She was a loving caretaker of her parents. She is the first of us cousins to go and she will be greatly missed.
Jan Silberling says
Jane Fisher was a beautiful soul in this life and certainly in her new spiritual life, she remains so. I was a client of hers for many years. Jane was a good listener. She was kind and loving. Jane was non-judgmental and encouraging. She had a way of helping you see the best in yourself. These are all qualities one hope’s to find in a therapist, and I found them in her. But Jane was more than this. Jane was real. She laughed with me and cried with me. She was my friend. I could tell her anything, and I did. She honored me for who I am…just as I am. She never saw ugly…only beauty. I so loved her and i always will. Her passing blew a huge hole in my heart. It will take a long time to heal…if ever. I will take all that she taught me, and each chance I have…pass it on. Jane Fisher,was a hero in my life….a glowing example of a life well lived. Thank you, Jane. I love you.
Debra & Steve Polhemus says
Graceful and generous are descriptions of Jane that come to mind. May the loving memories bring comfort to Loren and Alicia during this difficult time. ❤️
Maggie (Farmer Ernst) Mccartney says
I am stunned and so sad to hear of the death of my life long friend Jane. I went to school with Jane starting at Jefferson Elementary. I was so jealous that she lived right across the street from the school and that she had a mom who was pregnant! I loved babies and Jane had a new little baby brother! We were in Campfire girls together and carried on a friendship throughout High School. Every once in awhile I would see Jane around town, usually when we were both shopping. She always talked about her daughters with such pride. Jane had the most beautiful radiant smile and a heart to match. I am so very sorry for her family and those close to her. The light in our world is dimmer without Jane.
mary protheroe says
Jane was the most avid listener I ever met. Her grace, sincerity and smile are etched in my memory. With her help I have walked through Chemotherapy with serenity she helped me experience. Jane was truly a Professional caregiver whose reach will never be fully known by many, but lives on in each of us who experienced her care.
MK Bogumill says
The world is little less bright and comforting with Jane’s passing. She was a kind, thoughtful person and a highly knowledgeable and skilled professional. You will be greatly missed, Jane.
NANCY HARPER says
OUR DEAREST JANE—-HOW WE WILL MISS YOU AND YOUR ROOM FILLING SMILE! MY HEART GOES OUT TO LAUREN AND ALICIA AND JACKIE AND ALL OF YOUR BELOVED FAMILY. WE ARE AT A LOSS NOW ,HOW TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH WE LOVED YOUR GENTLE SOUL. BUT BELIEVE, US, WE TRULY DO. AND YOUR FAMILY CARRIES THE MARKS OF YOUR CARING LOVE WITH THEM THROUGH THIS WORLD, FROM NOW ON. WITH OUR LOVE, NANCY HARPER AND THE HARPER FAMILY
Hugh Black says
Mary Grace and I called Jane our close friend for many years. She and I consulted about cases weekly or more often, and I was grateful for her wisdom, but more so for her caring. We saw each other through many difficulties, and we enjoyed some very good times socially. Her death is a great loss to the Helena community, and more so to me personally. She touched my life permanently and she will not be forgotten.
Mary Grace Black says
Jane was a dear friend and colleague for more than 15 years at the Family Psychology Center.. My memories of Jane was a woman of strong integrity and goodness. She always seemed to have an understanding of human nature that was accepting and understanding of our human flaws, a woman without judgment. Her kindness was her hallmark and her love of her girls was her radiant pride. Jane you will be missed and remembered with great love for having known you. God bless you Jane
Connie Hiett says
My relationship with Jane began as her being my lifesaver. Through the years we have become friends.
I thank you Jane for all you have taught me.
I will miss your beautiful smile and caring heart.
My deepest sympathy
Daniel and Jamie Crepps says
We feel truly lucky to have gotten to know Jane through her wonderful daughter Alicia. We have such fond memories of celebrating with Jane at JT and Alicia’s wedding and can still see her beaming as she walked Alicia down the aisle that special day in July. Jane raised two truly amazing women, and we are extremely blessed to have them both, carrying on Jane’s legacy of kindness and generosity, in our lives. We are incredibly sorry for your loss. Love, Daniel, Jamie and Charlie.
Diane says
My condolences to Jane’s family at this difficult time. I was a 72 classmate of Jane and will always remember her as a kind and sincere person. May she Rest In Peace. With deepest sympathy. Diane Richter Pedersen
Tom and Judy Fisher-Rolfe says
So many fond and fun memories growing up at Grama Fisher’s house on Jackson Street. Trips to the creamery for ice cream and playing in the back yard. Jane was the ‘smart cousin’, my Dad reminded me of that often! 🥰
A fun, intelligent gal who was a huge blessing to her Mom. Rest In Peace Jane, hope you and Grama Fisher have reunited, she thought we were pretty special! 🎈💞🎈💞
Todd Cockrell says
Jane
Always listening. Great dancer since she was a kid. Great cook & full of vin & vigor. I’ll miss you cuz.
Love Todd
Janet P Wollersheim says
JANE WAS ALWAYS SO KIND AND EVER SO GENTLE. IN GRAD SCHOOL SHE WAS WELL LIKED BY FACULTY AND STUDENTS ALIKE. WE WILL MISS HER DEARLY BUT TAKE COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HER INFLUENCES LIVE ON. JAN WOLLERSHEIM
Rita A Williams says
My heart is sad with the loss of Dear Jane. She was there for me at a difficult period in my life. I will always be very grateful. Jane will be deeply missed.
Lorri Mullen says
Dearest Jackie and family, I am so, so sorry to read of the passing of your dear, Jane. I know you were so close. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers now and in the days to come.
Barbara Banchero says
I will miss seeing Jane on Sunday at St. Paul’s. She was a such a warm, friendly person and had such a loving relationship with her mother Jackie.
Sanna Pote says
Dear Jackie, John, Jim, Lauren and Alicia — I am heartbroken to learn of Jane’s passing and especially heartbroken for you, her beloved family. Jane was one of my dearest friends from grade school on. We had such great adventures together in Campfire Girls, Methodist Youth Fellowship, singing in choirs, talking about life. While our paths took us in different directions after Helena High, it was always a joy to see her and catch up. Her smile could light up the world. It’s very moving to read these tributes from all the people whose lives she has touched. That’s my Janie. I can just imagine the conversations she and her dad are having right now, and it makes me smile through the tears. My heart is with all of you.
Charlotte Marie Neill says
Jane was my counselor for three years. She was helping me to navigate Old Age and resolve some of life’s disappointments. I am enriched by her wisdom, kindness, and sharp wit. She made me laugh. I always felt better after talking to Jane. I send my condolences to her family, friends, clients, and her colleagues at the Broadway Center.
Kendra Waddell says
Jane was a beautiful soul. Her smile and laugh lit up a room. Her generous hugs and cheers from the sidelines ring loud in my memory. Her daughters have brought so much joy to my life and I have her to thank for that. I will miss her dearly. Sending my thoughts, prayers and love to Alicia, Lauren and all of her wonderful family,
Ben Kamerzel says
Jackie, Alicia and Lauren,
I will miss Jane on “the Mountain”, and passing her on my way to work each day. I always enjoyed talking with your daughter/mom as she always shared her wisdom and kindness, both of which has been passed to her daughters. Keep the faith, times are tough, memories are rich and healing is already taking place. He only takes the best, darnit! God Bless each of you and your family!
Truxton Rolfe says
Driving to Butte with cousin Jane and aunt Jackie to see Hillary Clinton and Barrack Obama will forever be one of my favorite road trips of all time. Rest in peace, Jane. The smiles and warmth you brought into all of our lives will forever be remembered.
Anne says
By some synchronicity, just last weekend I recommended that another friend and colleague consult with Jane for her particular expertise in our field. And then we learned of her passing, too soon; she is already missed.
I am grateful to have known Jane for almost 20 years before I moved away from Helena ,MT in 2000. Jane was one of very few therapists to whom i would refer a client, when our own work had become mired in misunderstanding or confusion. Jane was exceptionally bright and a far more patient therapist than I .
Since my own two children were born the same decade as Jane’ s daughters I remember their birth. I remember Jane’s continuous attention and devotion to her babies that first year of life.
I wish I had had more opportunity to know Lauren and Alicia.
I will hold you all in my heart and prayers at this time. Sincerely and with Love, Anne M Pincus
Anne says
I will hold you all in my heart and prayers at this time. Sincerely and with Love, Anne M Pincus
Rubi Roope says
My lifesaver. My hero. I spent six years of my life visiting with Jane. We shared laughs, and tears, and laughter through tears. I’ll never forget her laugh. She walked me through difficult times, and helped me to see the light with her gracious heart. I’m forever grateful for you, Jane. My thoughts of comfort, and condolences to her family, friends, and all who will miss her.
Debbie Pascool says
Jane you will forever be missed. Jane helped me through some very hard times and I will always be grateful for her kindness and help. Her passing has let a deep hole in my heart. I will always remember her laughter and tears she shared with me. Her smile always brighten my day when she opened her door to welcome me in. A life taken too soon! My prayers and blessings to her family and many friends. Fly my friend❤️
Kay Johnson says
I am so shocked and saddened that the wonderful, talented Jane is no longer with us. She was my therapist in the mid-1980s and she was truly the best. She tried new ways of working with me that involved “thinking outside of the box” and together we were successful. Many times I recommended her to others. Even decades after we no longer had a professional relationship, I was so glad to run into her out and about. Her smile was genuine and warm, and she always wanted an update on how I was doing. I loved hearing how her daughters were and what they were up to. I will miss our random encounters and the world will miss her light.
Tammy Mix says
You will be truly missed and in my heart always..and never be forgotten.
Kitty Lou Rusher says
Remembering when Jane came to Hinsdale in summers to visit her Dartman grandparents…Jackie, and Bev, too, I am so sorry. Smile as you hold those precious memories of carefree times. Prayers now.
Margie and Arky says
May the memories of Jane live forever in your heart and bring you comfort always.
Our Prayers and deepest Sympathies are with you
Diane Claypool Ball says
We always had fun when the Dartman grandkids came to visit. I have great memories of Jane and crew!! Living next door we were always up to something. Prayers
Jackie Colombe says
I first met Jane in 1994. We instantly had a good rapport. She helped me feel safe and empowered me to reclaim my life. Jane helped me heal and kept me whole years later when I needed her help again. She was the anchor to my ship, and I feel adrift, knowing that she has left this realm.
I miss her tremendously and feel blessed that she was a part of my world for so very long.
I am sending positive energy to all of you who feel her loss as deeply as I do. I pray we will once again be together in the same realm she is in now, with her there to welcome us in.
And I hope her family feels blessed by the words shared here.
Inez Slayman says
Prayers and heartfelt thoughts to Jane’s family. May the wonderful times and your memories comfort you in the upcoming difficult times. I was a client of hers many years ago. She helped me by listening and guiding me to understand and cope with a most difficult time in my life, and rebuild myself. She was an amazing person and I would thank her when I’d see her over the years. Thank you again so much Jane.
Marti Clarke Johnson says
Jane was a special soul who will be missed by so many. I can’t believe we will never see Jane’s bright smile again. Her eyes actually lit up when she smiled at you and I always felt she was truly happy to see me. I was friends and classmates with Jane from Jefferson School on to graduation in 1972. I remember Camp Fire Girls and church activities and have pictures with her included. She always gave her all to whatever activity she was in. Jane was always helpful, caring and kind growing up, and she found the perfect profession. My parents knew Rollie and Jackie well and Jane got many of her amazing traits from them. Jackie, I’m thinking of you and praying that you find comfort in knowing how much we all loved Jane. I will miss visiting with Jane at St Paul’s and yes, she always talked about her daughters… she was so proud. My heart goes out to Jane’s family and people that were close to her. I know I’ll never forget her.
Robyn Nickel says
I remember Jane in grade school at Jefferson School, and being in Camp Fire together. The Jane I remembered always had a smile on her face, and had that caring personality. She was a great listener, and also had a witty personality. I lost track of Jane through our years of raising children and working in our professions. I reconnected with her the past few years going to the Methodist Church with both of us bringing our moms to church. The moms always talked and Jane and I had some great conversations during this time. My heart goes out to her family. She was so proud of them, and spoke fondly of her mom, brothers, and twin daughters. I will truly miss her!
Suzanne and Stan Severin says
Our hearts are saddened by the sudden loss of someone so special. It was always a joy to see Jane. I loved the few opportunities that came around when we would get a chance to visit and catch up. Her smile lit up a room especially when she talked about her lovely daughters. She was always so kind, thoughtful and positive. I will never forget how she glowed at Alicia’s and JT’s wedding She had such a calming presence about her that is reflected in her daughters. Our prayers go out to you girls and Jackie.
Tom Cockrell says
Wow. Where to start. We were cousins. We were friends. One of my oldest memories is of Jane and Patti Browne (Guenthner) – flower girls for our Aunt Bev’s wedding, and I was the ring bearer. We were the 3 1953 Dartman cousins, and I spent a fair part of my life sandwiched between Jane and Patti, and tormented relentlessly by them, but in hindsight loving every second of it. Jane had a wit to go along with the intellect – sardonic to the t, with one of the best, “What the,…?” looks imaginable, and always followed by a laugh which was part guffaw and part snort. Absolutely one of a kind – and kind. As I write this, I can hear her laughing in Portland, playing on the hill behind Nana’s in Hinsdale, swimming in the Milk, buying as much candy at Claypool’s as we could, Canyon Ferry, Missoula… Ah Cuz – wherever you were was brighter for it, and wherever you are now just got better.
Marylis Filipovich says
I will miss seeing Jane, with her calm, kind smile, sitting up in the balcony at St. Paul’s. She was the best and most insightful listener I’ve ever known, always accepting and caring. She was a lovely person that brought peace and joy to those of us lucky enough to know her.
Barbara Kamerzel says
Alicia, Lauren, Jackie, I’m so sorry for your loss! I’ve been privileged to know the fisher/korn family for over 20+ years. Jane was such a kind soul! She will be greatly missed! Hold the memories close as those will help with the pain. God bless all of you.
VIckie Rauser says
Jackie & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and sorrow. Holding you all in prayer that you find comfort and solace in the days to come.
Wanda Weston-Hooper says
Jackie
My prayers are with you and your family. I did not see the paper at first and it took me awhile to realize what I was reading. I remember you talking about Jane often am so sorry for her passing.
Jane Claypool Frye says
I was friends with Jane and all of her cousins and brother John when we were all kids. They used to come visit their Dartman grandparents in Hinsdale every summer and we lived next door. We lost touch as we grew older, but Jane was always a sweet soul. Condolences to all of her family.
Denise Linjanen says
My deepest sympathies to the Fisher family. Jane and I grew up through St. Paul’s Methodist church. Going on church camp trips together. Very fond memories of those camping trips.
I love and miss you Jane❤️
Bruce Desonia says
Jackie and family, I was shocked and saddened to learn of Jane’s premature passing. My heart goes out to her wonderful family! It was truly a blessing to get to know Jane and her family as Shirley moved next door to Jackie and Rollie. I will always remember her sincere smile. After her fathers passing I would see her car at her mother’s almost every day after work. Her caring heart still shines for those who knew her.
Kimberly Newman says
My deepest condolences to Jane’s family. I was shocked and greatly saddened to read of her passing. She was a guiding light to me during a time of prolonged personal darkness. I am forever grateful for her compassion and gentle, accurate insights which helped me to find my inner strength and light again. The world has truly lost an “earth angel”.
Marty Thieltges says
I knew Jane from working with her in the church office on occasional Sunday mornings. She always had a smile and a friendly word.
She will be greatly missed.
Jeanne Bouma says
Jackie and family. Jackie I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter. I too remember you talking about her. She was so blessed to have you as a mom. Please know we are in my prayers and thoughts at this difficult time. Please take care.
Rusty and Pat Callbeck Harper says
Years ago after I’d gotten my breast cancer diagnosis, I asked close women colleagues who is Helena was the best counselor… ‘absolutely Jane Fisher of course’ was the answer. Since then I have smiled deeply inside and out each time I see her and her mom after church or sitting in the balcony. I hope that Jane and her mom know how often we altos sang our best for them, always rewarded with the most amazing and loving smiles in the world. Beloved Jane, we celebrate your life and your amazing gifts to so many. And we surround your daughters, family and your dear mom with our love. Heaven, and heaven’s gardens, are quite a bit more beautiful and healing now… we will miss you so much.
Kimberly Beavers and Farhad Omoumi says
Dearest Alicia,
We are so sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and JT during this difficult time. Although we cannot all be together, we hope that you feel surrounded by love and comfort.
Sending all our love,
Kimi and Farhad
Mary Harsh says
Jane was a valued colleague and I miss her deeply.
Bev Dartman Scanson says
Sweet Jane, As your Uncle Bob would say “Ditto” to all the kind words already said. You always welcomed me with “Hi Auntie” and your loving hugs. I am so going to miss that and you. Love you, “Auntie” Bev
Sarah Beavers says
Dear Alicia,
Our heartfelt condolences to you and your family upon the sudden loss of your Mom. The many tributes make it clear that she was loved by all, and lived a life of service helping so many people through difficult times in their lives. Sending our love and prayers to you and J.T.
Sarah and James Beavers
Emily & Blake Brennan says
Dear Alicia,
We are so sorry for your loss. We cannot imagine what you are feeling, but want you to know that we love you and JT so much. It is so clear that your mom was such a passionate, loving, servant leader in your family and community. It is also clear that you share and carry on these amazing qualities in your life and career, serving and loving others. We are praying for you and thinking of you and your family. May you be surrounded by love, peace, and comfort always.
Love,
Emily & Blake
Carolyn P. Crepps says
Dear Alicia, J. T. and Jackie,
Each and every person who knew Jane, the mom, Jane, the daughter, and Jane the steadfast, loving, and compassionate friend, feels the sadness of losing her presence in their lives. Jane truly is an exemplar of the writing of Robert Louis Stevenson, “It is not the length of life, but the depth of life” that measures our time on this earth. My love to each of you, today and through the weeks to come.
Carolyn Pyle Crepps
Christie says
Dear Alicia,
I am so sorry for your loss. It is clear that your mother touched the lives of so many and was an extraordinarily special person. My heart is with you and J.T. during your time of sorrow.
Love,
Christie
Brad Bowers says
I knew Jane for several years and she helped me through some very difficult times in my life. I always left her office feeling lighter and more optimistic about the future. I will miss our time together and her wise and kind words. Rest in Peace, Jane.
Marti Wangen says
I am so sorry for your loss. Jane was a member of the Montana Psychological Association and she will be very missed. Her presence in the Association and in the Helena community will be felt. I suspect that she has helped more people than anyone will ever know.
Jenny Harris says
Jane was witty, intelligent and loved with her whole heart. I am deeply saddened to hear of her passing. My heart goes out to her daughters Alicia and Lauren, her mother Jackie and the rest of the family. Jane was a calming soul and she will be greatly missed by many. Rest easy Jane, until we meet again.
Love always,
Jenny, Nolan and Ellie
Julie Olson Struyk says
Jane and I were classmates from elementary school through college. Her warmth and compassion was apparent, exemplified by her radiant smile and glow. It is no surprise that she became an excellent clinical psychologist. We shared a love of music and song. I will remember Jane as a truly good person. My heart goes out to her family. God bless you…
Karen Porter says
Dear Alicia and JT,
I was so sorry to hear about your mom’s passing. I remember her beautiful smile at your wedding. From reading these comments, she was well loved and respected by many, many friends and colleagues. Our hearts go out to you both, your sister and grandmother. Sending you love and big hugs.
Karen and Mark Porter
Karen Braund says
Jane, my dear, dear friend, I will miss you the rest of my life. Since our twenties we shared life. Whether we were near or far, in tears or in celebration, or simply talking about experiences of daily life, you were a sure friend, generous of heart, always kind, sometimes challenging, always genuine and compassionate, and not just with me but also in your views of others. You are a treasure to me. I miss you dearly.
Cindy Sheets says
What a beautiful service ! It warms my heart that I had a chance to meet Jane and spend some time with her and her beautiful mother Jackie, her brothers John & Jim. Jane was such a loving, compassionate, wonderful person. She will forever be remembered. Jane was so proud of her beautiful daughters. Jim & I extend our sincere sympathy to all of Jane’s family. It’s truly been a pleasure to meet such a kind, loving family.
Connie & Greg Johnson says
Alicia & Lauren & families,
We are saddened at the sudden loss of your mother, a gracious woman full of love for so many.
May peace find all of you and fill you with memories that help sustain you.
We are again reminded to celebrate every day we are given.
Best to you all in this life that has changed. Make it happy as Jane would have wanted!
Sanna Porte says
Jackie and all— that was the most beautiful service. Every part of it honored Jane’s memory and her sweet, strong spirit. It was hard not to be with you in person, but I watched it online while sitting by my living room window where I could see St. Paul’s and feel like I was there. My love to you all.
Annie Tavary says
Alicia, Lauren, Jackie, and All,
Crap and fubar!
It is so hard to say goodbye to your Momma; daughter, friend, mentor, confidant, teacher, guide, and the woman who loves you unconditionally with great joy and all bragging rights.
She was pretty amazing, ya know.
When I would see her, she gave me that gorgeous, “you matter to me” smile, and we would chat. When I would ask, “how are our girls?,” her smile lit up like the sun, her eyes twinkled like bright stars, and her obvious love for you was palpable. She seemed shy to me in a way, but talking about you erased any and all shyness. Sheesh, we could have stayed hours together while she shared about your lives with me, but she was a loved woman and sought after, and she had others wanting her with them – those who called her Daughter, Mom, Friend, Therapist, and those simply wanting to bask in the gift of her presence. I imagine she also was enroute to adventure, dinner with Jackie, and to time caring for herself.
Not having her to call at anytime and spending time together will be so difficult.
Her physical absence will feel like an abyss, but I believe she will make herself known to you in spirit, in dreams, in aromas, in laughter, in the wind, in nature, and always in your thoughts and day dreams. You will ache in ways you never imagined. Grieve at your own pace, there is no time line for it. Cry as long as you need to, when you need to, wherever you need to; there is no rush.
She is with you in your hurt, tears, loss, laughter, accomplishments, at major and minor life events, in adventures, and feel good about all you do. She has and always will want you to have the best lives you can.
I love you all so much,
Annie!
Luke Michelson and Meg Crane says
Jane was such a kind and tender soul. We went to her for support in the beginning stages of our marriage but our relationship quickly evolved into what I’d consider to be a true friendship. She was great at her work, giving very helpful advice, both by suggesting avenues of communication that may not have been as obvious also just by leading in an example of being a kind and communicative soul. She always had such a heartfelt, sincere demeanor that we cherished over the few years that we knew her. We were lucky to know her and we wish her family and friends comfort in such a trying time.
Lois Neal says
Lauren and Alicia and family, We were so saddened to hear about your mother’s death. What a difficult time for you. Saying good-bye is so hard and without others to help carry you makes it even more difficult. May you find peace and know how well you were loved. Sending love from the girls as well (Grethchen and Jenn).
Mary Kunnary says
Jane will be greatly missed. She was also smiling. I met Jane at Crossroads Health Club. God Bless you Jane. RIP
Mary Kunnary