Lorraine “Lorrie” Mae Merrick passed away unexpectedly Sunday, May 25, 2014. She will be remembered for her love of life, infectious smile and laughter, and most of all her devotion and care for all of those close to her.
Lorrie was the first of three daughters born October 12, 1960, to Robert and Shirley Bergeron in Edmonton, Canada. Lorrie spent her early years of life in Edmonton, Fort McMurray, and Calgary. She loved competitive sports and especially enjoyed summers at the family lake house in Invermere, British Columbia. Besides her love for water sports, Lorrie was also an accomplished pianist in her youth (a fact unknown to most of her present day friends and family).
In 1977, she moved to Helena, Montana to attend Carroll College. While at college, she met the love of her life, Joe Merrick, in the library (so Joe claims). She graduated at the top of her class with a B.S. in Dental Hygiene. Shortly after her graduation she and Joe were married in Canada. Lorrie and Joe celebrated 32 wedding anniversaries together. Joe never failed to make Lorrie laugh and Lorrie was Joe’s rock.
Lorrie and Joe welcomed two children into the world, Cassidy Roshelle and Matthew Joseph. Matthew unexpectedly died 6 weeks after birth. All those that knew Lorrie, knew that she was a dedicated and loving mother and Cassidy was the center of her universe. Lorrie spent countless hours coaching Cassidy’s soccer teams, traveling to all of her sporting events, and acting as a constant support for Cassidy no matter what life challenge arose. Anyone who spent time with Cassidy knew that her mom, Lorrie, was never far behind-they were a package deal. Lorrie never missed an opportunity to be part of her daughter’s life and Cassidy cherished this. Before soccer games in college, Cassidy would look into the stands for her mom knowing she would always be there.
Lorrie was committed and passionate in her pursuits. As a soccer coach, she led the Elkhorn Hornets to four state championships. Not only did Lorrie work to better the girls’ soccer skills, but she also mentored them off the field. The girls on the team referred to Lorrie as their second mom due to the investment and genuine care she had for each and every one of them. Lorrie continued this when Cassidy’s soccer career took her to college at Carroll. Lorrie quickly became a second mom to many more. Lorries was the Saint’s number one fan, and to Lorrie, this also meant that she was the team’s personal chef, chauffer, nurse, personal shopper, photographer, and most importantly, Cassidy and her teammates could count on Lorrie for absolutely anything.
Professionally, Lorrie worked as a dental hygienist for more than 30 years. Lorrie’s passion for dental hygiene and devotion to her patients translated well to her career. She was a leader in her career as reflected in her membership with the Montana Dental Hygienists’ Association, serving as president in 1992-1993; teacher in the dental hygiene program at the College of Great Falls; and most recently appointed by the Governor to serve on the Board of the Montana Dental Association.
On May 25, 2012 Lorrie and Joe welcomed Drew Sanders into their family when he and Cassidy were married. As Joe stated at their wedding, “If Cassidy wouldn’t have married him, Lorrie probably would have.” Lorrie adored Drew and was thrilled that Cassidy found her “Joe”.
In September 2013, her beloved grandson, Carter, was born. In much anticipation and in true Lorrie style, she had her bags packed 2 months prior to his due date. Joe and Lorrie visited California to be with Cassidy, Drew, and Carter many times this past year. She loved giving Carter baths, reading him stories and brushing his teeth (of course). She looked forward to seeing and talking to him almost every night on FaceTime. Lorrie always had a story or a picture to share about Carter – she was one proud grandma.
Lorrie will be deeply missed and present in the hearts and memories of those who knew and loved her.
Lorrie was preceded in death by her father Robert; infant son Matthew; grandparents Edward and Andrea Bergeron and Annie Watson; nephew Nicolas Merrick; and in-laws Nick and Eleanor Merrick.
Lorrie is survived by her husband Joe, daughter and son-in-law, Cassidy and Drew Sanders of Oakdale, CA, grandson Carter, parents Dean and Shirley Rempal of Calgary, Canada; sisters Francine Bergeron (Jim Pashko) of Peace River, Canada; Sandra Bergeron of Sherwood Park, Canada; Veronica Barleen, Phoenix, AZ; and brothers Brydon Rempal, Phoenix, AZ; and Garrett Rempal, Calgary, Canada; sister-in law Kathy Mellen (Pat) of Missoula; sister-in-law Marian Hamry (Mike) of Winnemucca, NV; brother-in law Fred Merrick (Geralyn) of Kalispell; nieces and nephews along with their families, Kevin, Shawn, and Brian Mellen; Mark Hamry; LeighBeth Merrick, Terra and Daniel House; Connor and Sheldon Rempal; Lindsay, Mitchell and Paul Galeski and lifetime friends Linda Corr-Mahugh of Butte; Bill and Lisa Schauer of Helena.
Visitation will take place from 10:00 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., Thursday, May 29th at Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home, Helena. The family will receive friends from 5:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. with a vigil at 6:00 p.m. at the Cathedral of St. Helena, 530 N. Ewing. A mass will be held at the Cathedral of St. Helena, 530 N. Ewing, noon, Friday, May 30th. A reception will immediately follow the Mass in the Brondel Center, located in the lower level of the Cathedral. In lieu of flowers memorials may be sent to Seattle Cancer Care Alliance, Attn: Donations P.O. Box 19023, Seattle, WA 98109 or Dental Hygienist of University of Great Falls, 2100 16th Ave South, Great Falls, Montana 59405 or Carroll College, 1601 N. Benton Ave, Helena, MT, 59601
Service Schedule
Visitation
10: 00 a.m to 3:00 p.m.
Thursday May 29, 2014
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 North Montana
Helena , MT
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Thursday May 29, 2014
Cathedral Of St Helena
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Mass of Christian Burial
12:00 p.m.
Friday May 30, 2014
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Reception
Immediatly Following Mass
Friday May 30, 2014
Brondel Center
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Service Schedule
Visitation
10: 00 a.m to 3:00 p.m.
Thursday May 29, 2014
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 North Montana
Helena , MT
Family Receiving Friends
5:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m.
Thursday May 29, 2014
Cathedral Of St Helena
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Mass of Christian Burial
12:00 p.m.
Friday May 30, 2014
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Reception
Immediatly Following Mass
Friday May 30, 2014
Brondel Center
530 N. Ewing
Helena , MT
Share
Claire & Syl Dolinski says
Our prayers, love and thoughts are with each of Lorrie’s family and friends at this time. She was a very special lady and her passing leaves a big void in each of our lives. WE loved to hear her laugh, which she did so often. God bless her soul and each of her family.
Ermelinda Baca, RDH says
My prayers and thoughts are with your family at this time. I met Lorrie through WREB. She was a definite oral health care advocate in your state and it was apparent that dental hygiene was a passion not only a profession. She will be truly missed!
Ermelinda Baca, RDH
Colleen and Brett Gnenz says
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of Lori’s family at this time. We will always remember Lori as larger-than-life in all that she did. What a wonderful and beautiful wife, mother, child, grandmother, cousin and friend she has been to us all. Take time and be gentle with yourselves. Your memories of her will never fade and all our love for her and all of you, will always be strong.
Ange and Matt Furlong says
What a tragic event to have taken our friend so early in her life. We will always cherish her loving smiles and conversations at the dental office, and in the community. She had a gift to bring joy with her wherever she went. I can’t imagine what it must be like for those who are closest to her. Our family is heart broken for your loss, and are thinking of you all. May God be with you to give you comfort, and to give you strength in your loss and help you to carry on Lorrie’s legacy of love and joy.
Thanks for sharing your gifts, Matt
Tony Gallagher says
Joe —
My sincere condolences. You and the family are in our prayers.
— Tony and Roz Gallagher
Kelle McMahon says
Joe, Cassidy, and family,
We are so very sorry for your tragic loss! Lorrie loved you all fiercely and was so proud of you! We know you will miss her deeply and our hearts go out to you. We hope you are someday able to find comfort in knowing that Lorrie’s life, while much too short, was filled with love for all of you. May God give you comfort and strength and help you to feel Lorrie’s presence as she watches over you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Joe and Kelle McMahon
Mark and Judy Schulte says
Joe, please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Our hearts ache for you and we know there’s no answers to the many questions. We’re so sorry Joe for your lose. Mark and Judy Schulte
Joel Fuhrmann says
Joe, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family have been and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sandra Bergeron says
Joe, Cassidy, Mom and Dean
My heart just aches when I try to imagine how hard these past few days must have been for you all. Find strength and support in each other as well as from others who were close to Lorrie. Take pride in the words of praise that so many others have shared about her, and will continue to share for many years to come. Remember how lucky and truly blessed we were to have her in our lives. She hasn’t left us, she’s just been promoted. Now she continues to watch over us all from an even better vantage point. I will miss my big sister and I try to find comfort in knowing that she is at peace. She lives on through those who were closest to her…we have to keep her memory alive by staying positive . This can help Carter to see just how special his grandma really was!! She grabbed the bull by the horns and held on for the ride! My thoughts, prayers and love follow you… Love you Big Sister!
Pat Hurley says
Joe,
Words are difficult in the light of your enormous loss. I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during the days ahead.
George Johnston says
Lorrie was a sincere person who was full of passion as previously stated. She was incredibly smart and kind too. I am so sad. I had only known her a short time on the Mt. Board of Dentistry, but she was very open and made a person feel like a close friend. Her friendship was a gift to me.
George Johnston
Pam & Larry Trettin says
Joe, Cassidy, and family,
So sorry for your loss. Lorrie was a remarkable person. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
ED,Pam, Fallang says
Joe and Cassidy,
We are very sorry to hear of the loss of Lorrie. Lorrie was a very nice and beautiful person. You were very good neighbors and enjoyed you a lot. No words can heal the loss that you have. Just know that you are in our Hearts, Thoughts and Prayers at this time.
Dawn Piazzi says
Joe-Cassidy- My heart and thoughts are with you. LOVE.
Mark & Wendy Tonkovich says
Joe & Cassidy,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are for your loss……. May family and friends surround you at this time and in the days that lie ahead. Lorrie was loved by many and has left behind hundreds of happy moments that will help carry you through. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time………..
Sharon Pelletier says
Joe, Cassidy and all Family – Words cannot say what the heart would like to. You have the support, love and prayers of many. Lean on people who love you and know you have their support. You are in my thoughts and prayers – Lorrie lives on in your memories. Love – Sharon
Mardie Gardner says
Joe, I don’t have the words to express how badly I feel about this tragedy. I hope you realize how many friends you have at Intermountain; and, that each and every one of them are here to help you in any way we can. Please let us know if there is anything at all we can do. Take care of yourself, mister! Mardie
Michael Reardon says
Dear Joe, Cassidy, Drew, and family;
May the angels lead Lorrie into Paradise, to join so many of our loved ones.
With my love and prayers, Mike
Talya, Dan, Tennyson, & Mav says
Joe, Cassidy, Drew, Carter, and Lorrie’s Parents,
We are so sorry for your loss. Lorrie loved you all so much and glowed when she was around you all. I will remember her smile as we arrived at your baby shower the most, Cassidy. She will be greatly missed and although we know she cannot ever be replaced, we will do our best as a family to share all of our love with you moving forward!!! That’s a promise!!
We love you!!!! The Martin 4
Glen and Patti Welch says
Joe and family,
We are so so sorry for your loss my heart aches for you please know that you are and will remain in our thoughts and prayers
Nicholas C. Hopkins and Family says
Our thoughts and prayers for Lorrie’s family and for the good people at Crowley Dental. She was particularly thoughtful and diligent in caring for our family. We will miss her smile and her care. Our condolences for your loss.
Stephanie, Brandon and Nicolai (McMahon) Eickmeyer says
Joe, Cassidy, and Family:
We are so very, very sorry to hear of your loss. Lorrie was a wonderful person and she loved you all so much. Please know we are thinking of you!!
Dan and Shana Hansen says
So sorry for your loss. I am Mindee Mellen’s mom, and I know how much she has always loved Joe, Lori, and Cassidy. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time of tragedy and loss. May the Lord bless and keep you always.
Pam VonBergen says
Joe and Cassidy,
I am so very sorry for your loss! Since working with Lorrie for 15 years, I knew her very well. She was the most compassionate, loving, intelligent, kind and generous woman.. She loved you both with all of her heart. She’s with her Lord now.
She will be truly missed by all who knew her.
Kitty Martin says
Joe & Cassidy
I am so sorry for your loss, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.
Linda Sanders says
Dearest Joe, Cassidy, Drew, Shirley, Dean and precious Carter, Our hearts are broken since hearing of your loss…. We will miss Lorrie’s laugh, her smiling face, her enthusiasm for life, most of all her love of family! Always remember the joy you brought into her life, as she did yours. She was an amazing daughter, wife, mother, friend and GRANDMA!! I smile while thinking of the puppet shows Lorrie and Joe preformed for Carter on face time.
We will hold her in our hearts now and forever.
Sincerely, Steve and Linda Sanders
Kevin Weaver says
Joe, I am so sorry to hear of your families loss. Want to let you know, you guys are in my thoughts and prayers.
Doug McAlear says
Joe & Family:
I’m truly sorry to hear of Lorrie’s passing. Please know you are being kept in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May God’s healing grace be upon you.
Michael Olson says
Joe and Cassidy:
I have no idea what to say! Saying I am sorry for your loss doesn’t do any justice to what happened. Lorrie was such a rock for all our extended family. I know the healing will never end, but Lorrie will always be with us in spirit. God bless you both
Mike Wingard says
Joe and Cassidy:
While we have never met, I feel as though I know both of you from all of Lorrie’s details during my time in her chair. She became a great friend over the years, and even though few of us look forward to going to the dentist, I always knew I would be entertained by this wonderful lady who seemed to know virtually everyone.
On Friday, she wrote me a very compassionate note regarding the loss of my wife. To hear of her passing in a senseless accident was devastating. My heart goes out to you Joe and Cassidy and to all who know and/or worked with her. We all share a significant loss. My deepest condolences.
Mark, Ellen and Katie Baumler says
Dear Joe, Cassidy, and family,
Lorrie loved you all so fiercely and was so very proud of you. She so loved being a grandma and couldn’t wait to tell everyone about it. We will miss her. She was one in a million. Our hearts ache for you.
Paul and Tammy Olson says
We are so saddened to hear about your loss. Lorrie was instrumental in making the family reunions a success and was committed to her extended family. We appreciated all she did to help everyone have a terrific time. Our memories of the last reunion are great ones thanks to all of her hard work. She will be missed in so many ways. We are thinking of all of you, sending prayers and wishing we could be there in person to give our condolences.
Tom and Carol Lorang says
Joe, Carol and I are so sorry for your loss. We are unable to be with you Friday but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. The many memories you have of Lorrie will help you get through this. Just remember that all of your officiating friends are praying for you!
Kori and Steve Dee says
Joe, Cassidy and family,
Steve and I send you our deepest condolences and prayers. Joe, you and Lorrie have touched so many lives deeply and we are all better people for it. Please know we are sending you prayers and take comfort in all these wonderful expressions of love and care for you and your family.
Heidi Halverson RDH says
I am deeply saddened to hear of Lorrie’s passing. She was a very passionate dental hygienist and I feel so fortunate to have known her. She was insightful, dedicated and hard working. MDHA has truly lost one of the best! I will miss her greatly and send my deepest sympathies to her family.
Tracy Hull RDH says
All of the dental hygienists that came to know Lorrie understood her commitment and passion for her profession. She was incredibly smart, outspoken and willing to stand for her beliefs. She was always willing to help and give advice when needed. For all of us that had experience working with her through the dental hygiene association, she is so greatly missed. There are people who touch our lives personally and professionally, and have lasting effects, Lorrie is one of them. I pray for peace and understanding for Lorrie’s family.
Carol McGuire, RDH says
This news is such a shock. I have known Lorrie for over 30 years since she began her passion for dental health. She was always ready to be an advocate for our profession in so many ways and will be missed by all. My sincere sympathy to all of her family.
Carol
Lisa Olson says
I’m not exactly sure of the moment when Lorrie came into our family, because it’s as if she’s always been there. After she fell in love with Joe, and he with her, she was immediately part of the very big, eclectic, loving Reardon clan. That she willingly, gladly and very meticulously organized our massive reunions — and this included sending out loads of emails, coordinating the large events such as meals and activities and the small events such as … well, nothing was ever small — anyway, Lorrie made sure every single one of us was happy and taken care of. More than anything, she was so thrilled and proud to be a grandma. What a kind, loving soul. She will be so missed.
Anty Bobo says
Joe, Cassidy, and our loving family.
Lori is in Gods arms now. Her spirit lives inside us now and she will never be forgotten. She is loved and at peace with God. We’ll miss you and keep you close to our hearts.
Love Anty Bobo
Colleen Rahn says
Joe~
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Colleen Rahn
Patti Conroy says
To Lorrie’s family: your loss is shared by many of us in the dental hygiene community. I truly appreciated her intelligence, dedication, and ability to think quickly on her feet with little notice. She was a kindred spirit I will surely miss. She made her mark and it was a good one. God Bless.
Auntie Pat and kids says
Joe, Cassidy, Shirley, Dean, Francine and Sandi,
I am heartbroken over the news of Lauri’s passing. I remember her so well as a youngster growing up in Edmonton with her sisters and loving parents. Seeing her at family reunions was always such a great time. I know she is now with her father, uncle Dick and grandpa and grandma, maybe teaching them how to play Bergeron rummy. God has another angel in heaven who will be missed terribly but who can now watch over us. Love and prayers. Pat, Sean, Christian and Jennifer
Michele Fisher (Bergeron) says
Dear Shirl, Dean, Francine, Sandy and Cassidy,
It was Only one week ago Lorrie wrote to me asking if we could stay in touch. She sent me pics of Carter and titled the photo “the love of my life”. I’m so sorry I didn’t stay closer to her as she grew into a lovely lady. I think of her as a little girl, with her sisters and as Shirl’s eldest daughter. So bright and cheery and having a grateful disposition even though she had more than her fair share of hardships. I’m truly sorry for our loss and my heartfelt prayers go out to you all. Micky
Michele Fisher (Bergeron) says
Dear Joe,
i can find no words to comfort you during this time but please know you will make it through. Wrap yourself in the love and affection of those around you. From afar, I send you my love and prayers.
She will be missed.
Michele
Dave Riitano says
Dear Joe, my heart goes out to you and I am so very sorry for you and your family. You have my prayers.
Carol Price says
Joe, Cassidy and family, I so wish I could be there to tell you in person. Lorrie will be missed so much whether at dental hygiene functions, WREB exams, cheering for the Saints, or sweating at my spinning class! I loved her ferocious spirit and learned so much from her! Let all your friends and family help you at this time. Lorrie will be smiling at us from heaven!
Terry Klise DDS says
Joe,
I first met Lorrie at the 2012 Montana Dental Association meeting after her appointment to the Montana Board of Dentistry. She and I immediately struck a friendship that included laughing together, agreeing on some subjects and disagreeing on others (if you can imagine that!). But we never lost sight of our mutual commitment to our professions and friendship. We spoke on end about issues facing Dental Hygiene and Dentistry, as well as the pride and love she had for her Carter. To say I was overwhelmed at receiving the news of her tragedy is an understatement. We definitely lost a friend and colleague that was a unique blend of passionate and compassionate tenor, as well as someone to just talk with, laugh with and cry with. There will be treasured memories that will never die. My thoughts and prayers go out to you, Cassidy and Carter (who she loved without end), and all of Lorrie’s family.
Terry
Janet Lieberg, RDH says
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to Joe, Cassidy and family. Lorries loss is unbelievable and she will be truly missed by all. Lorre was a wonderful colleague and friend and I feel blessed to have had her be a part of my life and my profession. Her tremendous dedication, love and compassion to the Dental Health Profession was unmeasurable. Her strong voice and advocacy for all Dental Hygienists will be a tremendous loss, and we will dearly miss her. Please know you all will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless. Janet Lieberg, RDH
Morgan Maynard-Dixon says
It’s been some time since I’ve seen you…not since the “Deac Days”…but I’ll never forget how special the Merrick family is and what an impression they made on me…all these many years. Every day, new memories pop up for me about Joe, Lorrie and Cassidy. I’m sure there are many, many more people who are doing the same thing. She will leave a big hole in all of us. Take care, Morgan
Terry Lamping says
Joe, I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
Terry
Susan Lagerqust says
Joe, Cassidy & family–We were deeply sorrowed to hear of Lorrie’s untimely passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you as Lorrie takes her journey to heaven. May your faith keep you comforted during this difficult time. Susan & John
Rich Clausen says
Joe, Cassidy & family- I’am so sorry for your loss. Lorrie was an amazing person, and was taken far too soon. You are in my thoughts and prayers…
Rich
Diane Jim Dustin & Kassie Klemann says
I am so sad in so many ways. Especially for Lorrie and her family. And all of her dental patients. I am sad for myself because I just started working with Lorrie on the Board of Dentistry and she was so much helped. Dental Hygiene was her passion and love. Just such a big loss for all of us. But heaven gained an amazing lady!
God Bless, Diane, Jim, Dustin and Kassie
Judy Harbrecht says
Lorrie always spoke of her love and pride for her family. For some thirty years I have called Lorrie my friend and colleague. Oh my, what times we shared together! Spirited, intelligent, and one of strong beliefs–how I admired and appreciated her spunk, courage and steadfastness of character. We shared thoughts and laughs often.
Dental hygiene will miss her passion and professionalism, and I will just plain miss her.
Lorrie lead a life to celebrate. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marilyn Wine-Olson says
What a beautiful woman, inside and out! God Bless you Joe, Cassidy, Drew and little Carter. Our prayers are with you and your family. We experienced a sudden loss, reminds me of your family story. There are always people to reach out to, they cannot understand what you are going through, but can be there for support. We are sorry for your loss and we will keep you in our prayers. The Olson Family
Rick & Joy Parkinson says
Joe, Cassidy and Family…We were so sad to learn about Lorrie. We will miss her compassionate caring not only as our dental hygienist, but always concerned about our family and our activities. She was a very proud Mother and Grandma and loved life with a passion. She will be missed by all of us, but we will remember how she touched our lives. Our prayers go out to all of you in this sad time. God Bless all of you
Peg Hunter says
Joe, here is another big hug from one of your longtime friends from our days at “the Deac.” My heart aches for you and Cassidy and your whole family as you travel the journey of grief you are taking together. May your sweet memories of Lorrie sustain you during the coming days.
Know that your friends are sending healing thoughts. Peg Hunter
john and jody doubek says
Joe, Cassidy and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
Jeanne Olson says
At Cassidy and Drew’s marvelous wedding celebration, I met many of Cassidy’s soccer colleagues from Carroll College. They shared stories of their “soccer mom,” Lorrie, and how she welcomed them into her home. She fed, blanketed, listened, advised and loved them through the years they played sports with Cassidy. At the time I could not think of a greater tribute to this amazing woman! By marrying Joe she inherited a huge family, and more than anyone, Lorrie was the one who kept the family intact through so many fun reunions–we never thanked you enough, Lorrie! Your memories will live on and on. I know that Cassidy and Joe will entertain Carter every single day with warm and funny stories of his grandmother. She will be deeply missed.
Sara and Justin Murgel says
Joe and Cassidy-
So very sorry for your loss. There are no words to take away the pain. Please know we are thinking and praying for you.
Jan Donaldson and Mary Anne Guggenheim says
We really enjoyed Lorrie’s wonderful personality when we sat in her chair at Crowley Dentistry. It was a gift to have known her and we admired her dedication to dental health care, especially for children. Please know we will miss her and are thinking of you at this difficult time.
Jan Donaldson
Jack daphne & family Bergeron says
Joe& family
Lorrie will be truly missed by our family. She was our firstborn niece & our flower gril at our wedding. Lorrie suffered many heartaches & many triumphs throughout her short life. She has left us too quickly & we all hurt at her tragic departure. Wish we could be with you to celebrate her beautiful life. We know there is a special place in heaven for her. Love uncle jack & auntie daphne & family
jim and Peggy Kambich says
Joe and all the Family, our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. We are sorry for your lose. God Bless this wonderful family Jim and Peggy Kambich -Butte
Stephen & Sue Parrish says
It is so hard to think of meaningful words to offer in comfort. Our hearts hurt over Lorrie’s parting in this way. You and your family are very much in our prayers. Your friends always ~ Stephen, Sue, Nathan, Amy, Doug, Stacy & Elijah – Great Falls.
John Holbrook says
Strange as it seems, I know exactly what you are going through. I too lost the love of my life when Mary Kay passed from a brain aneurism over five years ago. Those were, and still are today, the hardest years of my life. You will get through it, but you will never get over it.
I want you and your family to know how much I loved Lorie. I was a patient of hers for over thirty years and we were great friends. I could not agree more with what was spoken about her at the vigil tonight. She was the quintesential definition of what a truly good person should be. I admired her, and hold her in the same esteem as Mary Kay. They were both outstanding women, who were ever the professionals in their field, and never failed to place the well being of their family and friends before themselves. It was a great privilege, and a personal honor for me to have done the reading at Lorie’s vigil. This world is now a less better place with her absence.
Please forgive me for having sent the half a dozen emails you may find in her mail box. I did not know until I read the paper today, of her passing. She always got a kick out of the humor and various articles I would share with her. I will miss her terribly.
May God Bless and Keep you all. You are all in my prayers, and will be for some time to come.,
Tricia O'Connor says
It was heartbreaking to learn the news of Lorrie’s passing. She was my hygienist for ages and I always knew that I was in good hands as she took her profession so serious and always was there to keep me on the good tooth care track. Even though she had to keep threatening me about the badness of not flossing several times a day. I appreciated her dedication! She touched many many lives and her memory will live on. I have you all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Geri Funk says
Joe and family,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your sudden loss of Lorrie. I have not seen you for years, but remember the easy friendship Lorrie and you offered when we lived in the same apartment building on S. Fee in Helena. In spite of it being such a long time ago, I have fond memories of Lorrie’s smile and her always happy, helpful nature. I will keep all of you in my prayers. Blessings to you all.
Brittany Bettenhausen says
Cassidy, Joe and family. You are all in my family’s thoughts and prayers. We are so so sorry for your loss and very saddened to hear this news. Lorrie was a great coach, mother and wife and will be missed by all who knew her. Thinking of her brings back many wonderful and fun memories. What a beautiful dedication to her life and memory. Deepest condolences.
Brittany Bettenhausen and the Rieker and Radcliffe families
Aunty Gail and the Baxter family, Victoria says
Dear Joe, Cassidy, Shirley, Dean, Sandra Lynn and Francine.
The many condolences I read hear speak so much of the love Lorrie spread to those who spent time with her. Grieve and wail. Only time and the loving thoughts you receive from so many who care can begin to heal the pain of losing such an amazing person. Thinking of you all. Love, Gail
Mary Cole & Maranda Ferrante says
Joe & Cassidy, our sincere condolences on the loss of Lorrie.
You will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Dee Miller Sternberg says
So, so sorry to hear about Lorrie’s sudden passing. I, too, was a patient of Lorrie’s for many years and enjoyed talking with her at every visit. She was funny, full of life and I will miss her very much. Peace to all who loved her and may you be comforted.
Peter and Shirley Hischier says
Dear Cassidy, Drew, Carter and Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss. You can take comfort in knowing how amazing a person she was and also by the esteem in which she is held by all of her family and the entire community. You are so deeply in our prayers and hearts. Peter and Shirley
Vi Schurman says
Joe and family.
It’s been some time since I’ve seen you as well, but I too will never forget how special the Merrick family is. I am finding it extremely difficult to find the right words to express comfort and to offer support at this time. You and your family are very much in my thoughts and prayers. Heartfelt condolences. Vi
Joyce DeCunzo says
Joe and Cassidy, my heart goes out to you. Lorrie has been my dental provider for many years and she was truly terrific at her job! Because of this connection we have been linked together for many years, and have grown our family histories over time. We knew so much about each other’s families – she was always so thankful and heartfelt about hers. She truly loved you Joe and Cassidy, and was so happy when Cassidy and Drew found each other. And, from one grandmother to another, how happy she was to become a grandmother! I am so sorry for your loss. i too will miss her tremendously but I know it will not compare to your heartbreak of losing her so young. I so hope the good memories of her will soon relieve your grief.
Jenna Anderson says
Cassidy and family, our hearts go out to you. Lori was a great mom, great soccer coach, & so much more. She was very devoted to helping others be and do the best they could. I’m thankful to have had her as a soccer coach for the short time I played. You’re in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all & take care. ♥
Paula and Don Lais says
Dear Joe, Cassidy, Drew, Carter, Parents and Family of Lorrie Merrick. We are in shock and grieving the sudden and unexpected passing of your loved one. Lorrie was an exceptional and beautiful human being…definitely one of a kind, making the world a better place. She was our hygienist for many years and we always looked forward to our appointments and special time with her, knowing it would be filled with laughter, sharing of family tales and caring advice. Oh, how she loved you all, and was so very proud too. Our last visit was just two weeks ago and she was so excited to share pictures of adorable little Carter, and stories of her daily visits with him on Skype, reading to him and that he now says Daddy and throws kisses. Also, how many times she has visited him this year, upcoming plans and the Fleetwood Mac concert in July with her Mom in Calgary. What an exceptional lady she was, bringing so much joy into the lives of others. There are no words to adequately express our deepest sympathy or ease the emotional pain of your loss. We can only trust in the Lord to wrap His loving arms around each and every one of you, and in His infinite Grace bring some degree of comfort and peace into your hearts through this surreal season of grief. Lorrie’s legacy of love and devotion to her family, compassion for others, dedication to her calling will always be an inspiration to us. We must rejoice in the beautiful gift she was, the joy she brought into our lives and treasure the times we shared. It was our privilege to have known her and been a friend. Every day when we brush our teeth and floss we’ll think of her and remember her wonderful smile, spirit and zest for life. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Nancy & Curly Hardyman says
Joe, Cassidy, Drew, Carter…. & family we have sat in Lorrie’s chair for 30 years. We will truly miss her “scolding” about not flossing regularly! :0) she was true to her profession and never gave up the fact that one day Nancy will floss! What an exceptional woman. She always had more to report about her family or the next competition she was going to be a part of. One of her stories I will never forget is the one about tent camping and her fear of bears. I say, Lorrie why go then? She remedied her fear by buying a battery pack and electric fence to position around the tent for protection. She mentioned Joe would carry it in for her…see how much you loved her, Joe! May your memories of her serve you well. Give yourselves time to heal. Heaven has a new angel. Hugs to you all during this most difficult time. Nancy & Curly
DeAnne & Ed Maronick says
Dear Joe and family. Words can’t say how sorry we are for your loss. I have so many fond memories of times with Lorrie. I am truly going to miss her stories and smiles. Our prayers and thoughts are with each of you. DeAnne and Ed
Lisa Nehl says
Dear Joe-
I am so deeply sorry for your loss! May the many wonderful memories you have help you get through this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! Take care and God Bless!!
Greg Berry says
Hello Cassidy:
My heart goes out to you and your family during this time of overwhelming sadness. May the Lord be with you and comfort you. Your friend always,
Greg
Amanda Burns Peterson says
Dear Joe, I only today heard of the tragic passing of your dear wife, Lorrie. I am so sorry you and your family are experiencing this grief of a beautiful life taken too soon. You are a good man and I am sure all of our Butte Central 1976 classmates are holding you close to their hearts and prayers. I send you my deepest sympathies. Love, Mandy
Kari Sutlovich (and family) says
Joe-
There isn’t much that I can say…but I wanted you to know that you are in my thoughts. I can not imagine what you and your family are going thru. All who knew Lorrie were blessed by her smile and contagious good mood. My Saturday mornings just aren’t the same without her.
Huge hug,
Kari
CCHC Group X Instructor
Paulette Mattos says
Cassidy, Drew and Family:
My deepest condolences to the Merrick and Sanders family during the sudden loss of Lorrie. She will be missed by all who knew her. I will fondly remember the time her and Joe came to California for the birth of Carter, and how happy and loving she was to become a Grandma.
Ellie Parker says
Drew, Cassidy, and family:
I only saw Lorrie every six months at the Crowley office, but it was always a treat, and I considered her a friend. We talked about everything (to the extent I could talk)–her lobbying the legislature, what a pain that was, how fine it was that the movie “Last of the Mohicans” used real Canadian French, her battle with cancer–all sorts of things. Lorrie was a full-blown individual, a bright light in anyone’s day. I miss her so much. There is a hole in our lives here.
Shel says
I was so sad to see this in the paper as we were out of town. I had just been with her in the dental office days before & we had shared stories about our Grandbabies. She was always interested in my outdoor adventures as I was of hers & Joes. We talked a lot about bears. I will miss her so much. I have known her since she started as a dental hygienist & looked forward to see her every 6 months. My healing thoughts go out to the entire family.
Janae Grotbo says
I know this is a late comment, but I didn’t get the news until now. I am deeply saddened by the loss of Lorrie. She has been my hygenist for well over 15 years. She was the hygenist for my entire family for years and years and cared so much about all of us. She always asked how my girls were and how the rest of the family was doing. She lit up like the brightest light in the world when her grandbaby was born! She couldn’t stop talking about him!! I am so very sorry we missed the funeral, but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. I’m not sure what I will do not having Lorrie around to give me “the look” for not consistently flossing my teeth!
May God wrap his loving arms around you during this time and help you to find peace and healing during this difficult time.
Janae Grotbo and family
Denis Markovich says
Joe I am sorry to hear about your wife. And how she was taken from you and your family. May God find a good place for her to watch over you and the family.
Den
Lee C Vercammen says
We just learned of Lorrie’s passing today, I am so saddened and my heart goes out to All of her family, friends, and coworkers. We will always remember her, and miss her dearly, and the great care she provided to us. Carol and Lee C and Lee A.
Steve Benvenuti says
Joe and family,
I’m so sad to see this. I know it’s been some time but I just found this when I was searching to see how you guys were doing. I don’t even know if you even read this still? Lorraine was very special to me all those years ago and we haven’t talked in many years which I totally regret. If you ever want to communicate just let me know.
Steve Benvenuti