Robert Lewis deMontigny was born September 26th, 1953, into the family of Tony and Peggy deMontigny who had already blessed him with his big sister Cheryl (Bob), and then followed with a little sister, Jean (Roger), and brothers, Tony Ray, Marcien (Dolie), David (Cindy), and Rodney (Marilyn). He grew up in a large loving family with many aunts and uncles, dear cousins, and friends who just felt like family. He graduated CMR High School in 1971, served a short time in the military and then joined the union. In 1976 and 1977 he met and married C. Renee Fayler gaining in-laws of mother, Ruth Fayler, sisters, Shelley (Bob) and Monty (Craig). Married just shy of 39 years, together they raised a son, Halleck, and daughter, Melissa Finnicum.
Fortunate enough to do a job he loved, he worked of OMO Construction for the better part of 20 years allowing him and his family to live in different parts of Montana, yet always calling Helena home. In 2005, he retired and took a part time job as a grounds keeper at the local Laborer’s Union Hall, where he and his beloved Abi dog spent many hours. He took great pride in being called “Brother Bob”, “Uncle Bob”, and even more so in being “Dad.” The greatest joys in his life were his grandkids, Wyatt Matthew Fitz, Eli Lewis Fitz, Kaylee Renee deMontigny and Halsey Jo deMontigny, of whom he loved without measure. He was so grateful to have a wonderful son-in-law Scott Finnicum and wonderful daughter-in-law Bobbi Jo. He had a poet’s soul and laborer’s hands. His friends were life time friends and the bonds with his family were strong. His philosophy of “Love of Life” was lived to the fullest. He was very God indwelled. Bob had a big heart. Bob chose a special day to leave us and passed away with the rare full moon on Christmas night. He is preceded in death by his father, dear mother, step father, Keith Lappe, and his father-in-law, Halleck B. Fayler.
A memorial service celebrating Bob’s life will take place at 10:00 a.m. on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 at Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home, 3750 N. Montana Ave., Helena. A reception will immediately follow the memorial service in the social hall of the funeral home. A graveside service will follow the reception at the Craig Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please make memorials in Bob’s name to Craig Cemetery, Attn: Craig Cemetery Association, 1545 Williamsberg Road, Helena MT 59601.
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
10:00 am
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana
Helena , Montana 59602
Funeral Reception
Following Funeral Service
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Social Hall of Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana
Helena , Montana 59602
Graveside Service
Following reception
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Craig Cemetery
Craig , Montana
Service Schedule
Funeral Service
10:00 am
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana
Helena , Montana 59602
Funeral Reception
Following Funeral Service
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Social Hall of Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana
Helena , Montana 59602
Graveside Service
Following reception
Wednesday December 30, 2015
Craig Cemetery
Craig , Montana
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Carol Grewell says
The best Forman ever,and a good friend. Will be missed.
Doris Romanisko says
My heart is saddened by your loss. When I was “on the road”, I often ran into Bob setting or picking up signs. We’d spend a few minutes chatting, and I always left with Bob’s big smile and laugh in my thoughts. He will be missed by many even those who never had a chance to meet him.
Marcien Patrick says
Is it just me or are we all guilty of not keeping in touch with our loved ones? R.I.P. Brother Bob, you will be missed. God bless us.
Julie (Schubert) Roberts says
We are so sorry to hear of your loss, Renee and family. Praying that you will be given the strength and comfort that you need right now. Love, Howard and Julie
Charlotte O,Connell Brutosky says
I have many fond memories of Bob, he was such a kind and caring person. He touched my life in a very postitive way. I am so sorry for your loss.
Shelley Sharp says
Halsey and Kaylee I am thinking of you and your family. So sorry for your loss. May your many wonderful memories of your grandpa help you through these hard days.
Linda says
Pete and I feel blessed to have been able to spend time with you and Bob this summer, Renee. He has always had a special place in our hearts and will be missed. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Esther Tichenor says
Will miss Bob and his services in the gravel hauling/spreading business. He was so professional and nice to work with. Accept my sincere sympathy. Our love and prayers are with during this sad time and always.
Gayle Barnett says
We all loved him and he will be sadly missed. I feel blessed that we got together for a short visit last summer. Renee, I wish I could have ridden to BC with you and Bob as I had planned. I would really like to be with all of you tomorrow. Hugs and prayers
Francie and Mick Mulholland says
Renee and family, our deepest regrets for your loss. Brother Bob and his quick wit, hard work and easy conversation will be missed around the Laborers headquarters and training center. May God Bless you all!
Loren Ellery says
I will miss my cousin Bob (Bimbo) and have many found memories of my youth with him and his brothers, sisters, Aunt Peggy, Uncle Tony, and Keith. Wish I could be there to share the memories. My prayers are for the Lord to provide strength and comfort to all of you.
Rodney deMontigny says
Long Story Short;
We Love You “Brother Bob”……. RLD
Charlie Hatler says
Jeanie and Roger and Family,
Ann called me with the news yesterday. Even though I graduated with Bob in 1971 at CMR, he was not in any of my classes! But, knowing you, Jeanie, I can tell he was a man gifted with a great spirit! Our prayers are with all of you in this, your hour of sorrow.
Charlie
Geri Pursley says
Being a childhood friend of Jeanne, it’s been a long time since I have been blessed to be around the deMontigny family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. I cherish the time I sent as a teenager with the deMontignys. Always know that I love you all!
Geri Pursley
Dale Kinshella says
I am so glad that I got to spend time with my cousin Bob last June at our Aunt Theresa’s 90th birthday. He had the same big smile, I remember from years ago growing up. We will all miss him very much. Our thoughts and prayers to Renee and family as well as all my cousins.
Dale K.
Marcien Patrick says
Jobsite supervisor-, equipment operator, crackerjack, dog trainer, idea’man, charmer, rockhound, treasure hunter, comedian, fisherman, hunter, a family man, “my hero” and the best big brother ever’, you are forever in my heart, i will miss you!….. Cien
Jesse Katsilas says
Uncle BOB,
For sure a man with a Big Heart and always willing to help you out. We love ya and missing you already!!
Katsilas Family
Cheryl de Montigny says
Brother you will be truely missed, I miss you already. Loved you much, your sister Cheryl…..
Deena de Montigny says
I am sorry to hear this and wish I was there with all of you. My best wishes to all of Bob’s family and friends.