Steve Moody (Reverend John Stephen Moody) died November 5, 2015, one day before his 67th birthday. Born on November 6, 1948 in Helena, Montana, Steve began his journey as one of the wisest men we all knew. He was a lifelong learner, a creator, a minister to many, a man with a keen sense of humor, and a warrior for human decency and spirituality. In recent months Steve said each day was a good day and life had never been better. He passed away just as he desired, making all his own decisions with his intelligent, capable, beautiful partner and wife of 24 years, Ann Moody (Carol Ann Kimmel), by his side. As a father, husband, brother, friend and counselor, Steve leaves behind a profound legacy.
Steve was an EMT, a Pastor, and a hospital chaplain. He was also a newspaper delivery boy in his earliest years. Steve earned his Masters of Divinity from the School of Theology at Claremont in 1986 while residing in California, after which he was pastor at Downey Memorial Christian Church. Previously, he completed his undergraduate studies at Northwestern Christian College and the University of Oregon, where he earned a bachelor of Religious Studies in 1982. He also attended the University of Montana and Montana State University several years prior to making his decision at age 30 to become an ordained minister. He had the goal of one day making it back to Helena to be the pastor at First Christian Church, which was a significant place for him. Not only did he grow up in that church, but his grandfather, Rev. Sam Crabtree, whom he never knew, first preached there in the late 1890’s and later preached his last sermon there in 1943.
Steve returned to Montana in 1989. He was chaplain for several organizations, some shorter-lived than others; the Montana State Prison in Deer Lodge, the V.A. hospital in Helena and St. Peter’s hospital and hospice for nearly 10 years. He was pastor at Clancy United Methodist Church from 1992 until 2001, and went on to First Christian Church where he retired from ministry in May 2006. Steve’s life’s work was to help others and encourage them to do their best, while he honestly shared that he was not perfect himself.
Steve had tenacity, and continuously engaged people in dialogue and critical thinking. He was a spiritual man with genius wit and a religion that evolved for him over his lifetime, a religion that resided in the sacred space of his heart and soul. If you had the opportunity to converse with Steve about religion, politics and the good of people on earth, you may have felt enlightened and wanted to follow him the rest of your life. Although he loved to talk, he also loved to plan projects and create. He was an enthusiastic engineer without the degree and admits he would have liked to be an engineer had his life followed a different path. Steve’s attention to detail and acuity allowed him, with Ann’s help, to gut and rebuild a house, design and craft numerous gadgets, and even build his infamous potato launching cannon. Today you may still be able to see potatoes sprouting in the Clancy schoolyard.
While growing up, Steve spent many seasons with his family and cousins hunting, working and playing hard. When he was 13 a miracle happened that changed his life forever; he left church camp behind and was hired by his beloved uncle, Arnold Rieder. He was part of a team on his Uncle’s 37 Ranch to bale hay and store it for winter to feed the cows. In Steve’s words, “this is where [he] learned for the first time what really hard work is and how satisfying it is to build a haystack and step back and assess the final work. [He] learned more about weather, rain, the growth cycle, cattle, reverence for the creation, and first hand knowledge of how God works in the world than [he] could learn in a lifetime of church camps.”
One of Steve’s highest honors was his beautiful family. Steve was rewarded by the hard work of blending a family with three daughters from his first two marriages, and Ann’s daughter and three sons from her previous marriages. Although he sometimes thought it a chaotic life, he felt eternally blessed by the additional daughters, sons, grandchildren, brothers, sisters, great grandchildren and cousins he gained in his life. In his life, Steve sought the serenity to accept the things he could not change, the courage to change the things he could, and in the end he had the wisdom to know the difference.
When my bones are flowing into the stream and down the river to the ocean,
then I will know what forever is. ~ Steve Moody
He was preceded in death by his father Robert Moody and mother Miriam (Crabtree) Moody, father-in-law and mother in-law Walter and Carol Kimmel. Steve is survived by his wife Ann Moody; daughters Jessica Fox and Anna and Sarah Moody; daughter and son in-law Loraine and Joe Wodnik; son and daughter in-law Tup and Adele Swaim; sons and daughters in-law Bill and Patty Swaim and Mark and Diane Swaim; sister Janet (Moody) Stiles, brother and sister-in-law Jim and Julie Moody, brothers and sisters in-law Grear and Linda Kimmel and Jim and Linda Kimmel; eight grandchildren: Gavin and Sage Fox, Travis and Brian Shepard, Breanna and Stephanie Wodnik, Krystin (Swaim) Andrezejewski, Jon Swaim, Zach Swaim, Tori (Swaim) Spencer, Justine Swaim; and two great grand children Collin and Josie Andrezejewski; and numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.
Steve is eternally grateful for the friends, family, nurses, and doctors who cared for him at the end of his life. He had what he called “a personal support team to die for.”
A Celebration of Steve’s Life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday Nov. 14, at Plymouth Congregational Church (400 S Oakes, Helena). The family suggests donations in Steve’s name may be made to the Cancer Treatment Center C/O St. Peter’s Hospital 2475 E. Broadway Street, Helena, MT 59601.
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Service Schedule
Celebration of His Life
11:00 a.m.
Saturday November 14, 2015
Plymouth Congregational Church
400 S. Oakes Street
Helena, Montana 59601
Reception
Immediately following the Celebration of Steve's Life
Saturday November 14, 2015
To Be Announced
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Dan and Toby Rieder says
Even though we’ve been expecting this sad news, it remains a profound shock to us all. Steve was a very easy-to-like individual – from the time he arrived too soon at his birth, until his all-too-soon passing. I’ll fondly remember the good times – hunting on Bull Mountain, the summers he helped on the ranch during haying season. I’ll also recall the moving eulogy and words of condolences that he provided when he presided at Mom’s (his own special Aunt) funeral. Please know that we are thinking of you in this difficult time..
Freddi Haab-Fiedler says
Ann – I am sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my prayers and thoughts.
Art and Clara Gilreath says
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Ann and the rest of the family
God bless
Shirley Battershell says
Dear Ann and family, So sorry for your loss. This is been such a difficult time for you and my heart goes out to all of you. You and Steve were so special and loved in our church in Clancy. You, Laurie and children have always had a special place in my heart and memory. May you find God’s healing and comfort in the weeks to come.
Deb Walter says
Every time I ran into Steve, he always had a smile on his face, which always put a smile on mine. God bless Steve and his dear family.?
Jane Dalley Golightly says
Steve and I were neighbors during our high school years. He was a great friend and was always so kind to my family. I am grateful for the opportunity to read about his life since then. It sounds like he was a great and spiritual man! My prayers are with all of you left behind until you meet him again.
Doug Pollafd says
Been thinking about it. Steve was my oldest friend. We met at age 5 in Sunday school at the Lutheran church. 1954. I know it’s wierd , but I remember one lesson when the teacher said, ” how should we punish someone who steals ?” Steve said “isn’t it wrong to hurt someone? If we punish him we would be wrong and two wrongs won’t make it right”
Wisdom . At age 5..!? that was Steve . A heart of compassion.
All through grade school, jr. hi. High school. A few stories about high school…let’s just say that Steve was living with gusto. Then at the University of Montana Steve lived across the street . Lots of chess games, ( he taught me how to play chess. )
Conversations lasting till late into the night. Making music with the author Dana Johnson.
I remember his stories from his experiences as a medic. Then him sharing his epiphany as a christian.
Much later he served our family at the passing of my mother at her funeral…
Good Job, Steve. You were sublime,in your grace, your flawless friendship, your courage, your generousity,your example as a man. Thank you! We loved you and always will.
Bill marshall says
Very loving, cared about others, he will be missed, God Bless…
Mary Runkel says
I cannot think of Steve without remembering his wonderful smile and the sparkle in his eye of happiness and contentment of a life well lived.
My thoughts and prayers are with you Ann and your family.
Doug and Deb Kralicek says
Ann,
So sorry for your loss. Steve will be welcomed by mom and dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Drew Dawson says
I have fond memories of working with Steve many years ago when we were co-workers at the EMS Bureau of the Montana Department of Health and Environmental Sciences. As our lives took us in different directions, we didn’t see each other frequently. But, once a friend of Steve, always a friend of Steve’s. Throughout the years, I would occasionally see Steve and he would alwalys be just as positive, energetic and thoughtful as the time-before. And, humor would always pervade the conversations…remembering our mid-1970’s work together.
My condolences to Steve’s family – he was a wonderful, unique man. You are blessed to have had him in your life and be sustained by the foundation he helped build for you.
Drew
Lin Mann says
I did not know Steve; however, his daughter, Anna, is a beloved friend. Her intelligence and compassion must be a reflection of Steve. I always say that Anna is a scientist who is a big walking heart. Condolences to you, dear one Anna, and to Steve’s entire family.
Jane George Surges (Janie Nigg) says
Drew and many of you have said it so well…once a friend of Steve’s always a friend of Steve’s.
I am so grateful we crossed paths in the 1970s at EMS and for the friendship that continued through the years. While I regret I did not know Steve was facing the end of his life on earth. I can only imagine his grace as he faced this living life with appreciation and love, and that wonderful smile! My condolences and love to Ann and family.
Jane
Jeff & Julie Forbes says
When we read about Steve’s passing, the first thing that came to my mind is Job well done, good & faithful servant. We are so thankful for Steve. Two things, among many, we have learned from Steve & use them daily; 1) God has no grandchildren 2) Just remember, no matter the crisis, God is working at this very moment. Allow Him to work. Ann & family, we are praying that you are finding comfort & peace in the legacy Steve leaves behind as he has touched so many hearts & lives. Your friends Jeff & Julie Forbes
Judy Baker says
It seems odd on a condolence page to tell you I laughed out loud when I read that Steve said he had a personal support team to die for! How typical Steve. His sense of wit and humor was unequalled. I worked with Steve years ago when he was in the St. Peter’s Hospice program. What a wonderful man. He and I shared many great conversations and an equal amount of smiles and laughter. I regret we did not stay in closer contact after he left the employment of the hospital. I can tell you for certain though; while we are mourning the loss of an amazing man – he’s having a wonderful day today!
Walter and Nancy Scott says
Dear Linda and Grear, We send our sympathy in your loss. We regret that we never knew Steve. What a lively, interesting, caring person he was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Stephanie Hannasch says
Steve was my older brother’s Big Brother as he also volunteered his time lto help children. Our family was blessed when Steve came into our lives. Not only was he a remarkable “big brother”, he was a great father figure in a sense. He was involved with Jason’s Boy Scouts, we all know that’s time consuming! If I rember right, they got 2nd place in the wood car race. ? They dressed up as mummies with ace wraps one Halloween- great costumes! He taught us both how to play chess! Jason and I later played all the time. And now my son and I play regularly. He became a large part of our family. We’d even have family BBQ’s . Very good years! So many fond memories. He then moved to CA for his schooling. The year he moved back, our family moved to MO. ?. My brother had opportunities to see him over the years when he was able to return to MT. Blessings.
This wonderful man and his family blessed our family. Will never be forgotten. And obviously made a lifetime relationship with a young boy (our whole family) who needed him.
Very sad he is no longer here with us physically, but heaven is smiling and he is watching over us all.
Thank you Steve for all you did!
Dick McMahon says
Ann!
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Mel Smith says
I first met Steve in seventh grade when we were teammates on a football team. Steve was a good athlete. We were always friendly but not great friends and after high school I lost all track of Steve.
Then, a few years ago, my brother-in-law married his daughter Loraine and Steve officiated. The first time I’d laid eyes on him since high school.
After that, we would find each other during holiday dinners at the in-laws. It was during these brief and all too short get-togethers that I discovered the genius of Steve Moody. He was insightful, extraordinarily knowledgeable, and very entertaining. His thoughts on spirituality were incredibly well thought out and inspirational. I found him to be one of the more remarkable people I’ve ever met. Unique is a word that is bandied about too much, but I would ascribe it to Steve. Coming out of a conversation with him your head would be spinning.
Ann and family, I am so sorry for your loss. We will all miss Steve very much.
Janet and Robert Speirer says
Steve holds a special place in our hearts as he was our first pastor in Montana. His time at the Clancy church was meaningful to both of us. Although he has been ill for a lengthy period of time, he still impacted our lives and thoughts. I know he rests in peace.
Jamie Harwell says
I love Steve’s little line of knowing “what forever is”. And I love knowing how much Steve loved Ann. Wow- they were so blessed to find each other. It appeared to me to be a relationship based in respect, kindness and throw in some humor. Although I did not get to talk with Steve much due to his confinement – it was fun to stop in for a few words and to say, “Hi handsome”- the last time I saw him awake. My love goes out to Ann. Bless the caretakers of this world. They make all the difference in the quality of life of those they care for and in giving them love without reservations or conditions. See you soon, Ann.
Big….but gentle hugs.
Crystal Wong Shors says
Seventh-grade-Steve was a clever scamp and a wit. Over all the decades, I would see him occasionally and it seemed he often reinvented himself, but always kept that sparkle and warmth. He will be missed, and we will smile when we remember him as we smiled when we met him.
Cheryl Shepard-Morse says
Ann, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Cheryl and Mat
Terri Norman says
Ann-
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
jackie berger says
Dear Ann, I saw this quote in an article about caregiving, and thought of you..”We never know how strong we are til strong is the only answer.” Thinking of you. Sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Barb Lancaster says
During the time that Steve was at First Christian Church he was truly a light for my spiritual journey. He fed my desire for a Spiritual life that goes beyond the usual religious practices and pat answers that churches so often stop at. I am forever grateful for his deep spirituality, understanding and willingness to share those. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Robert and Debra ekblom says
Anne and family
Deb and I send you all are love and prayers. We will always remember that he spent his daughters birthday at our house officiating our wedding. We might have lost him from this earth, but we are assured he is looking down on all of us. Bob is so grateful to Steve for helping him get through the roughest time of his life. He credits Steve with saving his life. Deb is very grateful that he did. God bless you and your family Anne.
Ashby Jones says
Ann, my love and prayers to you and your family. God bless you, Ashby
Rick Marks says
Dear Ann and family, you are in my heart, and thoughts and prayers. Steve had a huge part in my road to recovery. He literally saved me from the brink of disaster. I have not forgot nor will I ever forget the grace with which Steve spoke. Rest in peace my friend.
Linda Kimmel says
Our memories of Steve are dear and we are grateful for the wisdom and humor and love he shared with us and all in the family. I always felt that I could have a good discussion with Steve on most any topic. When I expressed an interest in learning to fly fish he soon rounded up some items I would need and a couple of books for me to give me encouragement. It seems he loved a project which often involved helping others. He leaves a big hole in our hearts and I know this is true for all who loved him. We fill that hole now with memories of his wisdom, humor, and love and celebrate his life. We wish we could be with everyone as you remember his life. Please feel our arms around you and know we are holding you all close in our hearts.
Julie Kimmel says
When Steve married Ann and joined our extended family, we gained a treasure. His kindness, humor, curiosity, and wisdom enriched every family gathering and touched our lives in ways that will last forever. To his nearest and dearest, deepest sympathy for your loss. Julie
Rick and Gretchen Edelen says
Ann…you will always have a special place in our memories, both professionally and personally. We are saddened to hear of Steve’s passing and send you our best wishes. We look forward to seeing you soon and to putting our arms around you. Love and Peace sustain you.
Bob Olsen says
Played sports built vigilante floats with him and always admired his quick wit. Steve was scoring on a touchdown run and it was called back on a clip. Steve came back to the huddle and looked around at everybody. He didn’t say a word. Finally I said I was sorry. He just smiled that unique smile.
Reba Judd says
Ann, we are so sorry to hear of Steve’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your families during this sad time of learning to live on without him. Steve was so much a part of our family during his short time at Downey Memorial Christian Church that included camping with the Keen’s and Smith’s. He presided over the wedding of our son and daughter-in-law and you provided the music which Steve arranged. He will be greatly missed.