Terri Jo Fetty DeHart Wall (54) of Helena MT, met her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ at 1:45 PM on September 29, 2018. Terri was born April 3, 1964 in Helena to Charles Fetty and Yvonne Delveau Fetty Moody. Terri had a wonderful childhood growing up south of town in a home built by her father. In 1982, she graduated from Helena High School.
In August of 1984 she married Kevin DeHart, they lived a blessed life until his passing in 2004. On April 8, 2006 she joined Brett Wall in marriage, together they resided in a house on the westside of Helena. She grew to love their home and it was not uncommon to find Terri sitting enjoying the peacefulness of the backyard, smelling the fresh air filled with garden flower aroma and listening to the birds. Tending to the pear tree was a proud achievement, especially the bumper crop of 2017.
Terri was a hard worker, she held 5 jobs right out of high school. Employment with Blue Cross Blue Shield was from 1988 to 2004 finishing as a computer programmer. She later worked for the Department of Labor & Industry from 2009 to 2017 finishing as a Database Analyst. Terri retired in 2017 with the logic of “if she could afford to retire she couldn’t afford not to” and “she could get another job but not another mother or father”, to spend more time with family.
After Terri’s mother had a stroke in 2015, she diligently watched over her mother’s affairs, loving and honoring her mother. Terri’s father has been a snow-bird for many years and lived with Terri during the summer months. Terri referred to her father as her “recreational assistant”!
Her lovely sense of humor, puns, intuition and discernment of the spirit truly were special gifts for all her family and friends. She was a bright and energetic person who could joke about most anything. She loved the beauty of the outdoors, spring and autumn were her favorite seasons. Childhood memories included picking wildflowers with her grandmother, she favored shooting stars and always said “save some for seed”! Delivering flowers on May Day to her grandmother was an annual event. She loved animals, raised and performed with horses and especially loved her dogs.
Terri recently mentioned she had the “best summer ever” playing on 30 golf courses in Montana and she played golf with her dad and friends one week before her passing. This summer Terri started swimming, loved to bowl and even recently was enjoying pickle ball with a dear friend. Her motto was “whoever has the most fun wins”! Brett and Terri enjoyed traveling together, visiting multiple states in the US, took a couple cruises and ventured into Mexico and Canada.
Terri served locally, just 10 days before her passing she baked frosted sugar cookies for God’s Love Homeless Shelter, making the statement “they bring back my childhood memories, maybe they will for someone else”. She gave to Joyce Meyer Ministries where meals are provided, efforts to reduce human trafficking, helps with disaster relief and broadcasts the Gospel in 90 countries. Terri’s love for God’s kingdom was very evident through her thoughtfulness and giving nature. Terri was also a leader and favorite hostess in her “Jesus Sisters” bible study.
Terri is preceded in death by Jack and Neva Delveau, grandparents; Riley and Gertrude Fetty, grandparents; Kevin DeHart, husband and Tina Fetty, sister. Survivors are Charles Fetty, father; Yvonne (Vern) Moody, mother; Brett, husband; Tammi, sister; brothers Tod and Travis (Nanette); numerous loved nieces, nephews; and beloved dog Austin aka “Austin Powers International Dog of Mystery”.
A service celebrating Terri’s life will take place at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, October 27th at Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home, 3750 N. Montana Ave. A reception will follow the service in the social hall at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to one of the following or charity of your choice: Helena Food Share, Lewis & Clark Humane Society, Helena Horse Rescue, God’s Love Homeless Shelter or www.joycemeyerministries.com.
Service Schedule
Celebration of Her Life
11:00 a.m.
Saturday October 27, 2018
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following the service
Saturday October 27, 2018
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Service Schedule
Celebration of Her Life
11:00 a.m.
Saturday October 27, 2018
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following the service
Saturday October 27, 2018
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Tonna Strasko says
Terri, your smile and your positive attitude are the first two characteristics I think of when I think of you.
You are going to be missed by so many – friends and family.
Thank you for all you gave to us!
Heaven has a beautiful angel and you are one of the brightest stars in heaven.
Love
Tonna
Rick Olson says
Dear Yvonne, Tammy, Tod & Travis,
We were so sad to hear about the passing of Terri. She was always a kind and caring person and loved her family so much.
May all the good memories you all shared with her help you through your time of sorrow.
Peace & Love,
Rick & Barb
Tom and Judy Rolfe says
Brett,
Please know we are thinking of you at this very difficult time. Terri was a beautiful Christian woman who shared herself with others in a very positive important way . She will certainly be missed. We are praying with you and your family during these days as you prepare for your final farewell for now.
Dennis and Darlene Abeyta says
Brett and all Terri’s family.
She was a bright light, respected by all of us. How can we say goodbye to such a beautiful person. She made a difference to us too. May God comfort you with all your memories with Terri!
Susan and John Lagerquist says
Brett, Earlene and Terri’s family:
We are saddened beyond belief that Terri has been called to heaven earlier than we thought she should have. What a beautiful person heaven has welcomed. May peace and comfort be found in the memory of this beautiful angel.
Annell Fillinger says
Dear Yvonne, Vern and family,
I was so shocked and saddened to learn of Terri’s passing. She was such a sweet, loving, and caring person and it brightened my day when she was around. My prayers are with you all through this sad time. May God comfort you with His love and wrap His arms around you.
Bonee Erickson says
Brett
A card is on the way but please know you are in our prayers. Find strength in God’s loving arms.
Joe and Bonee
Laura Haralson says
Dear Brett,
We want to send our deepest sympathies to you and all of your family. Terri was certainly a treasure to all that knew her.
Love,
Rocky & Laura
Valerie Raisch says
Brett, Yvonne, and family…
It’s been years since we worshipped together at First Presbyterian
and we have moved away. Just heard about your beautiful wife
and daughter’s passing and wanted to know you are all in my heart
and prayers. May the love of God, family and friends help
to ease your sorrow.
John 3:16
Sincerely,
Valerie Raisch
Connie Vergine says
To all the family members of Terri,
I am so very saddened to read of Terri’s passing. I worked with Terri many years ago at South Hills Dental. She was a happy, sweet, fun person to work with, and a an excellent co-worker. She always had a funny comment and quick wit that brightened our day! She is too young to be taken so soon. My heartfelt condolences to Brett, Travis, Nanette and all of her family. May you remember all the love and beauty she brought into other’s lives, including mine! ♡♡
Colleen says
We all road the bus together
Had classes together in Grade School, Junior High, then Helena High School.
She was always so sweet and loved the Animals
And funny
I’m so so sorry for your lost
She will be missed
Brenda Downey says
Uncle Chuck, Tod, Travis, Tammi and Aunt Vonnie,
I am so very sorry for our loss of Terri! We had fun
together when we were kids. I remember when Terri
and I caught a little live mouse in a box and brought it
upstairs. All the women were yelling and getting on
chairs. It was funny for the both of us. Good memories
like this will keep her close in our hearts. She was a
sweetheart that was taken way to early in life. GOD
certainly has a beautiful angel now. Love all of you
Thoughts and prayers for you as you mourn
Love
Brenda and Tim Downey
Elaine Tuffli says
So very sorry for your loss. Hugs and peace your way
Pearle and Arlyn Plowman says
Too all of Terri’s family and friends: We are deeply saddened at the passing of such a special lady. May God give you Peace and Comfort in this time of grief. Thank you , Jesus for the loving, compassionate example Terri was to the world.
Arlyn “Butch” and Pearle Plowman
Beth Rolfe says
Terri was a rare and beautiful person, inside and out. She radiated Jesus. Some of my best memories in my early adulthood included long drives in the car and amazing conversations with Terri, spending sweet evening hours in her home with our “Jesus sisters” Bible study group and watching Hallmark Christmas movies, just the two of us. My heart is divided, in part because I am so excited that Terri is with the Lord and in perfect wholeness, but equally saddened because I know how deeply she is missed by all of us who have the pleasure of counting her as our dear friend and sister in Christ. One of my most treasured pieces of artwork is a painting of an iris that Terri made especially for me. It has sat on my dresser for a few years now and I look at it every day.
We love you, Terri! You will not be forgotten
With much love,
Dane Steffensen says
Brett and Earlene. Sorry for your loss. I’ll keep you in my prayers
Gods blessing to you and your family.
Dane Steffensen
Lanae Vetsch says
Dear Brett and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of sorrow. Terri was a joy to work with and always happy to help. Sorry for your loss. May happy memories help
Lanae
Janie DiAddezio Holmes says
To Terri’s family~
My sincere condolences to you all for this terrible loss. I remember Terri as a young girl when I was friends with Tina. She was such a cute little girl. I am so very sorry.
Janie DiAddezio Holmes
ron shields says
Brett: Addie and I are continuing to pray for you and Terri’s family. Ron
Annette Stockdale says
You are all in my thoughts and prayer, so sorry for your loss.
Mike Nelson says
Tammy and family, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your in my prayers
Cindy Summerfield (Woehl) says
I am so grateful that Terri (and Lisa) and I were able to get together this summer for a visit. Terri had so much fun setting up our gathering place and wearing her “Hawaiian” shirt! We enjoyed reminiscing about old times and were talking about a get together out in Seattle in the coming months.
We were in choir together in school and I imagine Terri is in the choir up above too.
Terri, you will be missed terribly and I look forward to when we meet again in Heaven!
Love you lots,
Cindy
To Terri’s family and many friends, I am speechless for our loss. My heart is with you, as are my prayers.
John & Cherie Dahl says
To the family: I worked at BC/BS for 14 years with Terri and she was truly a special person. Always had a smile and very intelligent. Terri will be missed and our thoughts and prayers are with you. 🙏🙏🙏
Jeanne says
I am so very sorry for your loss . I went to High school with Terry, (who always had a smile) , and babysat her nephew years ago. Sweet family. God’s Blessings and Peace for you all, and continued prayers.
Jeanne Visser Tiddy
John Ramirez and family says
Terri’s kindness, caring, humor, joy, and smile will continue to be unforgettable. May God hold her close until we see her again.
Norma Namie says
Brett, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you through this sad time.