In the early morning of June 24, 2017, Trent James Havron passed away. After a brave fight, Trent took his own life in Missoula, Montana. He was 21 years old.
Trent was born in Helena, Montana to Ann Roberts (Swenson) and Ben Havron on March 26th, 1996 at 7:32 pm. A born fighter, Trent came into this world with a congenital birth defect and had 12 surgeries, 2 life flights, and countless procedures. He faced his obstacles with grace and courage. He made his family laugh and smile, despite his pain. Through it all, he was always our brave little guy. Trent was a proud Utah Utes fan, as he considered the University of Utah his original alma mater. Dr. Snow and Nurse Debbie from Primary Children’s Hospital in Salt Lake City were an enormous part of Trent’s life and put him back together time and time again.
From his first seconds to his last days on earth, he loved to connect with people. In the delivery room Trent made eye contact with everyone in the room. He connected his big beautiful brown eyes with all of his family members and they all fell in love. During his last days on earth he reached out to each of his family members and found a personal, unique way to tell them goodbye. He did this in a way, that only Trent could orchestrate.
Trent was an old soul and to our disbelief, he began asking philosophical questions before he was in kindergarten. He had a thirst for knowledge, he was a history buff and would often spout out obscure facts like he was reading right from an encyclopedia. In fact, people many years his senior considered Trent a friend, not just a kid.
Trent was a champion for all those around him and was genuinely happy for the achievements of those he knew, no matter how small. Family was so important to Trent and he chose to eat lunch with his grandparents every day in high school. He listened intently to his great grandma’s stories. He was patient with his many younger cousins. By all accounts Trent was and exceptional young man.
Trent was the captain for the cross country team at Capital High School and after graduation, attended The University of Montana, where he was a proud member of the Kappa Sigma Fraternity. Trent loved spending time outdoors. Whether it was hunting, fishing, hiking or talking around the campfire, his genuine spirit always shone through in nature. His favorite places in the world were Pintlar Lake, Glacier Park and Hawaii. Trent was an avid sports enthusiast who loved the same teams as his father. It was rare to see Trent without a Kansas City Chiefs hat or Nebraska Cornhuskers shirt.
Trent taught us to love and to accept, he befriended all walks of life, quite fittingly his favorite song was “Come As You Are.” Trent, you changed our lives forever when you came into this world. You were the example of what a human should be and we will move forward following your lead.
Trent was preceded in death by his Great Grandparents Gerald and Azalea Butka, Byron Roberts, Francie and Kenny Goodsell, and Jack and Betty Havron and his Grandfather Paul Rylander.
Trent is survived by his parents, Ann and Curt Swenson and Ben and Lena Havron; His great grandmother, Irene Roberts; His grandparents Bill and Peggy Roberts, Marguerite Rylander, Jim Havron, Judy and Gary Feland, and Ron and Patsy Anderson; His siblings Megan Havron, Becca, Lily and Will Swenson, Charlie Havron; His aunts and uncles, Amy (Denny) Braun, Liz (Mat)Mogstad, Katie (Danny) Church, Tammy (Shane) McMurray and Tom (Kristen) Havron, Michelle Swenson, Andy Anderson; His counsins, Anabelle Adelyn, Calvin, Zoey, Miles, Jory, Daisy, Natalie, Carli, Molly, Chloe, Harper, Carter and twin cousins on the way, and many other family and friends.
A service celebrating Trent’s life will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, June 29th at Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home, 3750 N. Montana Ave. A reception will follow the service in the social hall of the funeral home. In lieu of flowers the family would like donations sent to Primary Children’s Hospital Donations Wish List at https://intermountainhealthcare.org/locations/primary-childrens-hospital/giving-volunteering/service-projects-donations/donation-wish-list/
Service Schedule
Celebration of His Life
1:00 p.m.
Thursday June 29, 2017
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following the Celebration of His Life
Thursday June 29, 2017
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave.
Helena, Montana 59602
Service Schedule
Celebration of His Life
1:00 p.m.
Thursday June 29, 2017
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave
Helena, Montana 59602
Reception
Following the Celebration of His Life
Thursday June 29, 2017
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Ave.
Helena, Montana 59602
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terri nelson says
Marguerite and family,
Our hearts break for all of you. Sending prayers and hugs.
Duane and Terri Nelson
Doug Reno says
My prayers are with the whole family and Marguerite & Jim, I can only imagine the pain and lose you are all feeling, I know we will one day get to see and be with our loved ones once again. regards Doug
Joy and Mike McGrath and family says
So very sad. Our hearts and thoughts are with you all.
Lisa & Bill Hedges says
Denny’s family in WA has your family in our thoughts.
STEVE TENOLD says
We will miss his quiet, out of the spotlight demeanor. He has made his mark on everyone who knew him. Trent, R.I.P. my friend, you were a good man!
Kim cripps says
Prayers
Peggy Fine says
Ann I am so sorry on the loss of your son. My prayers are with you. Remember the good memories. May the angels rejoice with him in heaven.
Colleen Benton says
Thinking of you all…condolences and prayers are being sent.
UMT Chi Chapter Alpha Phi says
We are thinking of Trent, and keeping all those who loved him close to our hearts. In his memory, we have sent a donation to the playroom.
Carissa says
I’m so sorry for your lost I know how hard it is I’m so very sorry for your lost. It is really hard when it is your child but you will see him again in paridise on earth I’m one of Jehovah witness so if you have any questions let me know. I’m sorry again .
Brandy, Keith, McKenzie, and Zach Sanders says
Ann, Curt, Becca, Lily, and Will –
We are so sorry for your loss. No amount of time is enough to spend with those we love or to prepare our hearts for letting them go. Please know that you will be in our prayers, and we are here if you need anything.
Shaun Deola says
So sorry for your and our loss. I enjoyed Trent’s presence in American Government class at Capital High School.
Patti Renenger says
Ben and Lena and family
I am so sorry for your loss – you two have big hearts!! Sending you prayers during this difficult time!!
Jennifer Steilmann says
Ann Marie & Ben:
So very sorry for your loss. Sincere condolences to you and your families.
Heather Petrino says
My heart and prayeres go out to ALL of you!
Marsha Alsbury says
Ann and families,
My heart is breaking for you all at the loss of your beautiful son and brother. I am sending prayers for all and hope you will find peace in the days to come knowing that he is in Heavenly Father ‘s loving arms until you meet again
Chelle Twist says
Curt and Ann, I was heartbroken to hear about Trent. I got the pleasure of working with him through the Hamilton Job Service. I definitely agree with his getting right into your heart. He sure did with me. I fell in love with his story. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was so fortunate that I was able to work with Trent. Take Care and God Bless.
Lynn Moon says
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The entire family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Kryss kuntz says
Ann and family,
Ann, my heart is heavy for you. You give off the same joy and giggles that it sounds like Trent emulated. I lost my nephew at age 35 for the same reason. I know the unimaginable call. Please dear lady know you are in my thoughts and prayers. He will always, always be in your heart and soul. Walk with him, talk with him, for he will never leave your heart. You will see him in ways that give you signs he’s still watching over his momma!
Take care of your “self” and know that many are sending you lots of love and hugs.
Kryss Kuntz ?
Wendy Studt says
Ann and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Words fail me. Please know you are in my heart and in my hugs. Until the next time our paths cross.
Wendy Studt
Marge l Kasper says
So sorry for your loss. Hope the love of family , friends, and wonderful memories will bring you some peace and comfort in the days ahead. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Ken & Marge Kasper
Carolyn Truscott says
I send my deepest regrets to Trent’s family. We lost our son Chad also to suicide this year. I pray your memories will overtake your grief and sorrow someday, and that you know he’s at peace, whole and healthy. May you also have peace that sustains you until you meet again.
Pam Bunke says
You have my deepest sympathies. May your memories get you through the tough days ahead. Peace to all.
Joe Baumgardner says
Ann Marie, Megan, Curt, Ben and all family members. I mourn with you over Trent’s return to the loving arms of his creator knowing he will always be in your hearts and memories for the good soul he was on earth and now in heaven as one whole happy person. Indeed, I have learned that life, love and death are all separate mysteries that will never be revealed to we who remain on earth. Trent now knows how much he was loved while with you all, and all other’s who loved him, and all who join him in everlasting life will come to know how much he loved all those he left behind. God Bless him. I am thankful for having known him and how bravely and heroically he faced life . I don’t regret being philosophic in his instance.
Geoff Gerrish says
I am so sorry for your loss. Trent and I were roommates for a short time at UM. I will always remember sitting in our room watching his favorite movie No Country For Old Men and talking on so many nights. Trent was an amazing person and he will be missed.
Dawn Bruck says
Ann and Curt. My heart breaks for you. I know there is nothing I can say that can ease your pain. I am thinking of you and all you family and friends.
Kim Oljar Wedde says
Sending you all hugs and prayers. My heart is so very heavy and I just have no words. Please know we are praying for Trent and all of you.
Mary Beth Carter says
Although we are not there today with you, we are sending all of our love and hugs from California.
We are blessed to hopefully help other children in Honor of Trent and have sent donations to the Children’s Hospital.
Tonna Strasko says
Lena and families, Our prayers are with you all. Although I did not know Trent, he sounds like a heck of a fun, intelligent, wonderful young man. God bless.
Tonna Strasko
debra mcnees says
Ann, I just found out that Trent is gone. My heart is broken for you. I remember both of you the first time we meet and what a beautiful baby he was. I remember the joy of seeing him grow up into a wonderful young man. I remember the incredible way you took care of him and kept him safe. There is never an answer for when this happens, just the hope that now his spirit is free. So very sorry. / Nurse deb
LaVonne Kautzmann says
Curt and family, my heart breaks for you in the loss of your son. No words can take away the pain but know he is in a better place and one day you will see him and hold him again. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Kevin weaver says
So sorry to hear of your loss. I can’t even imagine. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Debra Dorrance says
He was a disciplined kid in American Literature / Junior English at CHS and was a kind respectful kid. I watched him grow and accept responsibilities during his junior year. With respect and sorrow…