Vivian Genevieve Sigety Carter, a beacon of strength, love, and unwavering spirit, passed away peacefully, surrounded by her cherished family, on August 23, 2024. Born on November 22, 1931, in White Butte, South Dakota, Vivian was the beloved daughter of Joseph and Ruth Sigety. Her family’s journey led them to Helena, Montana, in 1937—a place Vivian proudly called home for the rest of her life.
Vivian’s early years were marked by resilience and adaptability, qualities she carried throughout her life. As a young girl, she experienced the vibrant changes brought by World War II, witnessing her family’s move to Spokane, WA, and their subsequent return to Helena with the end of the war. It was in Helena where Vivian’s heart and home flourished.
In 1950, Vivian married Jack Carter, who passed before her in 1970. As a single mother, Vivian raised her children with a blend maternal love, sheer determination, and affection. Her legacy as a mother, sister, aunt, and friend is a testament to her nurturing spirit and huge impact on those around her.
Vivian found a second family in the Women of the Moose, where she dedicated herself with passion and commitment, ascending to the role of Sr. Regent. Her influence and leadership were felt deeply as she welcomed over 50 new members into the fold, fostering a strong sense of community and camaraderie.
Vivian worked diligently for Sweetheart Bread for over two decades, earning the affectionate nickname “Sweet Buns” and a beloved CB handle. Her vibrant personality was evident in every aspect of her life—from her playful competitiveness in card games and dice to her unwavering kindness and generosity.
Grandma Viv was the heart of her family, doting on her 14 grandchildren, 25 great-grandchildren, and 3 great-great-grandchildren, as well as many who were “adopted” into her circle of love. Her warmth extended beyond biological ties, embracing friends and acquaintances alike, always ready with an open table and an open heart.
Vivian believed in togetherness, often saying, “The more, the merrier.” She cherished every opportunity to cook, bake, can, and travel, with special fondness for her drives to Lincoln, MT and Spokane, WA, to spend time with those she loved. Her genuine hospitality and vibrant spirit made everyone feel welcomed and valued.
Vivian was a proud and lifelong member of the Helena Cathedral, where her faith was deeply rooted from her early years attending Catholic grade school both in Helena and Spokane. Her steadfast belief and reliance on prayer guided her through countless challenges and tribulations throughout her life. In her final year, she was blessed to be a resident at Edgewood Senior Living, where she found comfort and companionship in her friendship with Joan O’Brien, her newest friend and roommate. Vivian’s faith and friendships were sources of strength and joy, illuminating her path with grace and love.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Joseph and Ruth Sigety; her five brothers—Walter, Leo, Royal, Allie and Herb; her sister, Lorraine Dunlap; her husband, Jack Carter; and her eldest son, Jackie Deon Carter. She is survived by her sons John Carter (Cindy) and Joseph Carter (Julia), as well as her daughters Linda McClure; Ruth Sexton (Tom); Vicki Carter (Greg Ranniger); Anita Emerson (Donald); and Amy Neely (John) and daughter-in-law Lynnette Nilan (Tom). Her legacy continues through her grandchildren Annette Carter; Tony Carter (Joey); Jennifer Bergum Swartz (Jon); Melanie Bergum Dayton (John); Amber McClure Jensen (Cody); Chase Carter; Tara Carter Opheim; Kayla Carter Northrop; Kasey Carter Parlet (Zach); Lauren Parriman Smith (Shawn); Benny Parriman; Michael Carter Miller; Sadie Gibbs; and Emily Chambers.
Vivian will be remembered for her endearing love, generosity, and the profound joy she brought to every life she touched. Her memory will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate to know her, as a true exemplar of kindness, strength, and familial devotion. Rest in peace, dear Vivian.
A vigil will be held at 6pm on Tuesday, August 27 at Anderson, Stevenson, Wilke & Retz, 3750 N Montana Avenue. Mass at noon will be held for Vivian on Wednesday, August 28 at the Cathedral of St. Helena. A celebration of life will be held at the Moose Lodge #639, at 4750 N Montana Avenue.
Memorial donations in Vivian’s name can be made to the St. Helena Cathedral, or the WOTM Helena Chapter.
Service Schedule
Vigil
6:00 p.m.
Tuesday August 27, 2024
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana
Funeral Mass
12:00 p.m.
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing Street
Helena, Montana
Rite of Committal
Immediately following the Funeral Mass
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, Montana
Reception
Immediately following Committal Rites
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Moose Lodge #639
4750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana
Service Schedule
Vigil
6:00 p.m.
Tuesday August 27, 2024
Anderson Stevenson Wilke Funeral Home
3750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana
Funeral Mass
12:00 p.m.
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Cathedral of St. Helena
530 N. Ewing Street
Helena, Montana
Rite of Committal
Immediately following the Funeral Mass
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, Montana
Reception
Immediately following Committal Rites
Wednesday August 28, 2024
Moose Lodge #639
4750 N. Montana Avenue
Helena, Montana
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Ethel L Anderson says
Grandma Viv was a great lady. A beautiful loving soul who people naturally gravitated to and felt immediately at home with.
So sorry for her loss but I’m sure she’s watching over every one of you. To my son-in-law Tony, especially, I love you.
Ethel
Valerie Hamer Eickmeyer says
Prayers to all the family of Vivian. She was a true matriarch of her family. Her memories will live forever.
Jackie iwen Schmoldt says
I loved Viv so much!! Such a wonderful lady! I will miss her so much! Rest in peace beautiful lady!!
Cari (Griffiths) Hutchison says
We grew up 2 doors down from the Carters. Viv was always looking out for all of us kids in the neighborhood. She had a quick smile, encouraging words, or a no-BS tone – whichever was most needed. Heaven definitely gained one of the best angels. My condolences to her enormous extended family for the loss of their amazing matriarch.
Gina says
My thoughts are with all of the Carter family. I am proud to say I knew Mrs. Carter all of my life,. Sending much love and prayers. What a wonderful lady, with the best kids ever.
Sincerely Gina Beneventi Tweden
Gordon Zahara says
Viv was a wonderful neighbor to my mother Elaine. Through the years she adopted me into her fold of family. She always welcomed me and my family into her home when we visited Helena throughout the years. Viv will be greatly missed by her entire family and by us. We send love and prayers in this time of sadness. The Zahara Family
Sara M. Graveley says
My sympathies to the Carter family what a great legacy your mom left. Sending love and light .
Marilyn Olson-Olson says
Viv was absolutely delightful, down to earth, full of life, and a smart conversationalist. The time I was able to spend with her on several different occasions was always well spent and enjoyed. Viv loved her family and if you knew and loved someone in her family she was delighted. She was like the grandma you wish you could adopt and keep – strong and loving, I adored her. I am so sorry for the loss of the Matriarch of your family, she truly was a beautiful woman inside and out.
Debby Flansaas says
Vivian was so much fun, I used to do her nails. She and I would laugh the whole time. God bless this family at this time of loss.
Rogelio Moreno says
My mom Carmen was a good friend of Vivians for many years I went to school with her son Joe my sincere condolences to her family
Margaret "Sissy" Kauska says
I met “Gramma Viv” through the wonderful family of bunco. She gave me great joy by reminding me of my recently passed momma of 93 years. I shared my momma stories with Viv and she gave me love ❤️. My condolences to the family and I know my momma will seek her out and they can share stories. Much love to you 🙏❤️
Brian Lannan says
To the Carter Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Vivian. Her presence was undeniably the heart of your family, and her ability to embrace everyone with open arms and an open heart is a testament to the remarkable person she was. Her circle of love was vast and welcoming, and her generosity of spirit touched many lives.
Vivian’s devotion to her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren, along with all those who were fortunate enough to be embraced as part of her extended family, speaks volumes about the depth of her love and commitment.
Her deep-rooted faith and steadfast prayers guided her through life’s many challenges, and her connection to the St. Helena Cathedral was a source of strength and solace.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this time of loss.
Vivian’s legacy of love, faith, and kindness will undoubtedly continue to inspire and uplift all who were touched by her life.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you remember and celebrate the remarkable life she led.
With deepest sympathy
Mike and Theresa Burgess King says
Carter Family,
We are saddened to hear about Vivian. She was such a beautiful woman, inside and out. She was a very dear friend to our Mom Dorothy. Grief is so hard, but when it is a Mom or Dad, the pain is almost unbearable. Your Mom was a woman of faith. She is probably hanging out with Dorothy and Hank. I have no doubt she will be watching over you all, and you will know because of the love you in your hearts you have for your Mom. God Bless her soul and God Bless each one of you. Sending hugs from Hamilton.
Janet Stellmon says
Carter Family, So many memories growing up across the street from Vivian. She would always say Hello when out in the front yard. She hosted my baby shower at her house. Trips to the ‘bread store’ were always a delight to see her. She would play at mom’s card parties. I always thought Vivian was an incredible strong woman. I will never not see the house on Leslie and think of her…or when I drive by the old bread store.
I’m so sorry for the family’s loss. I hope she is playing cards with my mom…..
Amy Budke says
Oh Gramma Viv! What an incredible woman. I first met her at the Sweetheart Bakery. My Grandma would take me there after fetching me from kindergarten. Vivian would give me a snoopy sticker and a hug. It’s been a blessing to know the Carter family through the years and experience all of the strength, grit, love, and devotion she infused into each family member. My deepest wishes for Viv’s family and dear friends-a peaceful journey on your grief path.
Jon Mannix says
Sorry I missed tonight
Mom and I will be there tomorrow!
Word’s can’t express how much Aunt Viv was in my life!!
Jon Mannix
Sharlene Stav says
Dear John, Cindy and family,
Just wanted you to know that you’re in my thoughts and prayers. You were so fortunate to have such a
Wonderful mom and I know you’ll miss her deeply.
Please take care,
Love to all, Sharlene Goodman Stav
Linda Oyler says
Linda Oyler
Vivian was the most lovable and compassionate lady with a heart that never stopped giving to others. She was a devoted mother and a wonderful friend to everyone who came into her life. She will be greatly missed by her family and all those lucky enough to have known her.