On February 6, 2014, Yvonne Patricia Cutler went peacefully home to the Lord after a courageous battle with COPD.
Pat, as she was known to family and friends, was a devoted wife to Marvin, a loving mother to Debbie (Doug) Kralicek and Monica Cutler and a wonderful grandmother to Jennifer Kralicek, Kimberly (Mike) Opie, Kevin Stewart and Meagan Stewart, as well as Jeff Shirley, who was like a grandson. She was also a great-grandmother to Cameron, Caeddyn, Kaylee, and Kason. Pat was a kind, caring and loving person who put the needs of others above her own, never wanting to ask for help.
She was passionate about cooking and baking for friends and family. Her potato salad was her trademark in family gatherings, especially to her son-in-law, Doug. In January 2013, Pat joined the Catholic Church where she gained strength and courage along her journey.
Pat was born February 23, 1936 to Buster and Mabel Felton and grew up in Chinook, Montana. In 1958 Pat moved to Helena where she worked for numerous surgeons until 1965 when she began employment with Montana Physicians’ Service. She held various management positions, including Vice President of Claims and Beneficiary Services. During her employment she successfully directed, in 1981, the first implementation of an automated claims processing system. Pat concluded her career with Blue Cross Blue Shield of Montana in 1994 as Vice President of Internal Audit.
She met and married the love of her life, Marvin Cutler, at Frontier Town On May 13, 1962. After retirement, Marvin and Pat loved heading out in their motor home, whether to Arizona of Canyon Ferry.
Cremation has taken place. A funeral Mass will be held at 12:10 p.m., Thursday, February 13, 2014 at Saint Mary Catholic Community, 1700 Missoula Ave, Helena, Montana 59601. A graveside service will immediately follow the funeral Mass at Resurrection Cemetery in Helena, Montana. Following the graveside service there will be a reception in the lower level of Saint Mary Catholic Community.
Memorials may be sent to Saint Mary Catholic Community, 1700 Missoula Ave, Helena, Montana 59601, Lewis and Clark Humane Society, P.O. Box 4455, Helena, Montana 59604, to Helena Food Share, 1616 Lewis St., Helena, Montana 59601 or a charity of your choice. Please visit www.aswfuneralhome.com to offer the family a condolence or to share a memory of Pat.
Service Schedule
Funeral Mass
12:10 P.M.
Thursday February 13, 2014
Saint Mary Catholic Community
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, Montana 59601
Graveside Service
Immediately Following the funeral Mass
Thursday February 13, 2014
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, Montana
Reception
Following the graveside service
Thursday February 13, 2014
Lower level of the Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, Montana 59601
Service Schedule
Funeral Mass
12:10 P.M.
Thursday February 13, 2014
Saint Mary Catholic Community
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, Montana 59601
Graveside Service
Immediately Following the funeral Mass
Thursday February 13, 2014
Resurrection Cemetery
Helena, Montana
Reception
Following the graveside service
Thursday February 13, 2014
Lower level of the Church
1700 Missoula Ave
Helena, Montana 59601
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Mary Schroeder says
Deb and Doug,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. She was an inspiration to me the way she lived her life to the fullest. God bless and comfort the family at this difficult time.
Your friend in Christ,
Mary
Andy, Allison, Patrick and Cassandra says
Deb, Doug, and Monica and family
We are so sorry to hear about Pat but know she is at peace and with your dad. You are in our thoughts and prayers and please let us know if there is anything we can do. It is never a good time to loose those we love and never enough time spent with them but they truly do go on living in our hearts. May you find comfort in time and memories.
Sever family
Bonnie Ogle says
I’m so sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Bonnie
Shannon Bartole says
Monica, so sorry to hear of your moms passing. I always loved to chit chat with her and you dad when they would come into the office. She was a neat lady and I’m sure she’ll be missed by many.
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Shannon Bartole and Family
Bob Gardipee says
I was so sorry to hear about Pat’s passing. I always enjoyed visiting with her and Marvin. They were great people, and I looked forward to seeing them. Pat made the best raspberry jam, and she was so generous to share it with my family. Thank you for calling, when I was off, to let me know about her passing. I would have liked to have made the funeral, but unfortunately I work Thursday afternoon. My family’s thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Bob Gardipee and Family
Gary and Darlene Kelley says
Dear Deb and Monica, We are so sorry to hear about your Mom’s passing. We wish we could have been in Montana to see her one last time. We are the snow birds enjoying the sunshine in Arizona like they use to do! We loved visiting her and Marv at Swan Lake and all the family reunions. They were a very special couple. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Darlene and Gary Kelley
Darlene Miller Scott says
I worked with Pat at MPS in the 60s. She was such a pleasure to work with. Always kept us laughing. She was so devoted to Marvin. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know that you have many fond memories to carry you thru this difficult time. You are in my prayers,
Tom Naegele says
Debbie, Doug & Family,
I am sincerely sorry for your Mom’s passing. I know she is enjoying her uniting with Marv. She is healed now and Loves you all very much. Prayers of support and comfort sent your way.
Tom
MaryAnn Ranger says
I am very sorry for the loss of Pat. I have many good memories of Pat and Marvin. My prayers are with your family in your time of sorrow. God Bless
Al and Pat Irwin says
Al and I will always cherish the memories of your parents; So many laughs, our holidays together, the phone calls and many emails back and forth.
Pat, we miss you, however we know you are with Marvin, your soul mate and love of your life.
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mary Pyette says
My deepest sympathy for the loss of Pat. She was the lady that got my husband Willie and I together on a blind date back in the year of 1953. We did a lot of things together and I was a good friend of her parents. She was very special to me. God bless. Mary Pyette Chinook, Mt. used to be Mary Pappas
Chuck Butler says
Marvin and all the fsmily
May Pat rest in peace. She wss a special person and cared deeply about family.friends..and coworkers
Susau and I regret missing the service..however our thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Doug and Phyllis McDonald says
We are sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. Doug and I always enjoyed our visits with Pat and Marvin over the years. They both were caring and fun people to be with. May God Bless.
Scott and Julie Frickel says
Monica, Deb, and family. We regret that we will not be able to attend the service, but please know our thoughts and prayers will be with you today. We have so many good memories of your mom and dad and know they are happy to be together again. Pat and Marvin were the most generous, kind couple. We wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. God bless you all.
Scott and Julie
Hettick Family says
Monica, Deb and family we are sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. your in our thoughts and prayers, God bless you all.
Deb Kralicek says
Mom and I spoke of her funeral many times in the last several months. the night she passed away I will always treasure. I was able to hold her hand and let her know how much we all loved her. I know she is with Dad now and that brings much comfort to us. Thank you to everyone who sent their condolences. It helps to make the difficult times a little easier. I will miss her terribly, but will treasure the memories we have. I love you Mom.
Debbie
Anna Demaree says
To the family
I was so very saddened to hear of Pat’s passing. I meet Pat and Marvin when they hired me to redesign the garden beds. As time went on we became friends. After Marvin’s passing I continued to care for the flower beds for Pat. A few times I cared for the beds at no charge to cheer Pat up. I enjoyed Pat as she was although very sad she was feisty. She was alway negotiating our We started playing cards a few times a month. It seemed to cheer her up and I did not care about the tremors. her eyes would light up as she shared about her family and grandkids.
Anna Demaree says
Well, seems she did not want me to share some of the business stuff. The system glitched. One last thing to share. I will miss her and appreciated the time she shared with me. She was loving and wise with life experiences. Although she did not intend to influence me, she did as any good friend would. much love to the family in these difficult times.
Mary Runkel says
Debbie and Family-
Your Mother had the very best laugh and crinkley smile when she looked right at you. She brought compassion and fairness to the workplace everyday for our customers. She was a great mentor and very good person. She and Marvin are now together for all time. My thoughts and prayers are with you now.
Tom Smith says
Monica and Debbie,
Am so sorry to hear about Pat. Your family has a special place in my life and heart and I enjoyed growing up next door to your family. Your family has always been my favorite neighbors. I miss both Pat and Marvin. They are still the best gardeners I’ve ever known. Their warm hearts and smiles are sorely missed.
God bless you and your families,
Tom Smith
Monica Cutler says
Well it’s been a little over 2 months now since mom has passed away. She was my strength when when I was weak and my laughter when I was sad. Words cannot even describe how much I miss her. Mom and I would skype at least once a day to give each other the needed support. She missed my dad Marvin so very very much. I am glad that she had accepted Christ as her personal savior and now dwells in a better place with many family and friends.
The hard part for me now is not being able to share any of my good news with her. OH how she would light up when something great happened to me in my life. I miss the sound advise that she would give me. I miss her telling me how much she loved me…. I miss her precious smile. I miss hugging her and telling how wonderful she is. I miss her presence. She will always be in my heart and mind. Love and miss that wonderful woman!!!