Don passed away peacefully at his home in Helena, Montana on Valentine’s Day. He was surrounded by family. The official cause of death was listed as “vascular heart disease” but ultimately he simply died of old age after a great 86 year run.
Don was born in Colusa, California and raised in Palo Alto. He came from a large California family that settled the Mendocino Coast back in the late 1800s. He graduated from UC Berkeley in 1959 where he rowed for the crew team under the revered Ky Ebright. Don remained an ardent supporter of Cal’s athletics and the school’s Bancroft Library throughout his life. It gave him great joy. It was also at Cal that Don met the love of his life, Joan Draper. They would enjoy over 60 years together and remain inseparable. Even in is final days, when speaking became labored, he garnered enough energy to sign and say how “special” she was to him.
After college, Don moved to Montreal to attend medical school at McGill University where he studied to become an orthopedic surgeon. In 1964, he joined the Army and spent a year working at a hospital in Korat, Thailand during the Vietnam War. He would later think back on his time in northern Thailand as a special part of his life. Don always had a curiosity and love for other cultures and places and would travel whenever given the opportunity.
After Thailand, Don moved to Philadelphia to do his residency at Temple and intern in the emergency room at Philadelphia General. His late night “war stories” from this time were legendary. During this time, Don would also become a lifelong Phillies fan and he would later work to bring a Phillies minor league team to Helena. Last fall, he enjoyed seeing his Phillies make it to the World Series and bought a new hat for the occasion.
After completing his medical training, Don moved back to Palo Alto to join a local orthopedic clinic. But by this time, his hometown had changed. It seemed busy and congested and getting away on the weekends with his wife and three kids was a struggle. In 1972 he and Joan moved the family to Helena. They looked at towns in Oregon, Washington, and Maine but ultimately fell for the charm, beauty, and outdoor access that Helena provided. An unobstructed view of Mt. Helena from his bedroom sold him on a house that he stayed in the rest of his life.
Don never abandoned his California roots and it made a priority to spend time back in his home state every year, usually near the ocean where he enjoyed long walks on the beach and taught his kids how to bodysurf. Don also fully embraced the Montana lifestyle. This was often defined by float trips with friends on the Blackfoot, long days skiing (followed by tailgate parties) at Belmont, exploring Glacier National Park, long walks in the woods with his dog, and lazy days on a floating “swimmer’s dock” on Placid Lake. On weekend camping trips, he also taught his kids to appreciate the “black hands breakfast” and finer qualities of spam. Don was also a quiet academic. He loved books and history, was an avid reader, and a big fan of H.L. Mencken (whom he’d often quote).
In Helena, Don was one of the founding members of the orthopedic clinic and enjoyed a long career in private practice helping others in the community. Don would eventually end his medical career with the VA in Helena. In 1982, he took a bold step and moved the family to Nurnberg, Germany for a year. He worked in an Army Hospital but insisted the family live in a nearby German neighborhood where they made lifelong friends.
In his later years, Don lost a lot of close friends and colleagues, some too early. He’d say it was the price you pay for growing old. He also met and befriended others over the years and always looked forward to weekly beers with a local group at the Blackfoot.
Don was a lot of things to a lot of people. But at his core he was simply a kind, humble, and compassionate person. He was genuinely curious about others. And he routinely went out of his way to quietly help those in need. He helped vets obtain much needed VA medical benefits, welcomed and supported Laotian refugees to Helena, opened his home to Carroll students, and eagerly supported local art, community, and conservation organizations. Even in his final months, when his health and energy were fading, he summoned the energy and took on the role of caregiver for his wife Joan. Cooking, cleaning, and making homemade waffles every Sunday.
In the end, Don always said he wanted to leave the house feet first. That’s exactly what he did.
Don is survived by his sister Linda, wife Joan, daughter Sara, and sons Colin and Matthew. He is also survived by six grandchildren: Owen, Evan, Liv, Willa, Lewis, and Hazel.
The family would like to thank Carissa Taylor of Palliative Care and the team at St. Peter’s Hospice for their timely and exceptional care during a very difficult time. They would also like to thank the community and Don’s friends for all the condolences, meals, and loving support.
A Memorial Service is scheduled for 10:00 a.m., June 10, 2023 at St. Peter’s Episcopal Cathedral, 511 N Park Ave., with a reception to follow the service at the church.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to Don’s favorite local non-profit: the Montana Environmental Information Center (MEIC).
Mary Kay Bennett says
In the silence of my heart, I say a thousand prayers for the Bishop family and their friends.
So, so sorry for many reasons.
Our son John adored all the Bishop family..thought of them as his own..and they treated him as such.
So many sprained ankles, doctor visits, social events, cabin talk, etc. The list goes on.
He will not be forgotten..he’s smiling again!
Dr Mike and Diane Evans says
I had the great pleasure of working with Don at the Ft. Harrison VA Medical Center, Department of Surgery for many years. He was revered as an orthopedic surgeon and touched hundreds of our veterans’ lives. He and Joan welcomed us to the Helena community in 1998. We treasure our years of friendship and the wonderful memories of times spent together outdoors, listening to stories about their family, and lively conversation by the fireplace. Peace to the Bishop family, peace to Don.
Amy Kiffe says
I remember when the Bishops moved next door. Matt dangling from the rope swing and Sara became instant best friends with my sister. They joined us for countless barbeques in our back yard and we attended several parties in their elegant house, just across the alley. We all grew up as a pack of wildings in the neighborhood. Countless memories of Don and his family. The Bishops were like family to us. My deepest condolences to Joan, Colin, Sara, Matt and their families. We will hold you all close to our hearts as you navigate this very difficult time. Don’s laugh and warm memories of him will ring forever for those who knew him.
Cara Bird Walcheck says
The Bishops were my second family. I remember every inch of their house by heart. I still dream about it. I never knocked, but instead just walked right in like I was another Bishop kid. Those were the days where you never told your parents where you were going. I feel so privileged to have had a childhood that had so many supportive parents watching out for me. Don and Joan were such gracious hosts; always opening their home to a wide variety of friends and neighbors. I will remember Don’s kind eyes and laugh every Valentine’s Day. Joan, Colin, Sara, and Matt – you are in my thoughts and prayers. Much love to you all.
Diane and Budd Williams says
Dear Joan and family,
We are so saddened by your loss! Please accept our deepest condolences.
Diane and Budd Williams
Jeff and Karen Strickler says
So sad to hear of Don’s passing. So many good memories all the way back to Stanford residency to the many adventures in Helena – floating rivers, Placid Lake outings, Don’s unfortunate fondness for oysters during the Everglades trip, the wedding in Yakima – so many others. We will remember our times with Don as times of joy and laughter. He will be missed. Our hearts go out to the family.
Tom and Karen Rasmussen says
This is to extend condolences to Joan and family. Way back in the 1970’s we had the fortunate opportunity to live
in the same block with the Bishop’s and the Phil Bird family in Helena’s upper west side. Between we 3 young couples, there were 10 kids, all around the same age and during that decade it was a wonderful tme as the kids grew, raced from house to house in their play time and we adults enjoyed our great relationships as well. We continue to cherish that time in our lives.
Joan and family, you are in our prayers, for peace and comfort in the weeks and months ahead.
Tim Tilton says
Colin, Matt and all Bishop Family,
I’m very sorry to hear about this loss but delighted to read and learn much about your dad. I am fortunate enough to know the allure of the Blackfoot River and am humbled to know that it brought him much peace and fellowship with others. Floating rivers in the summer and skiing the Great Divide (or Belmont for us old timers) is the best way to get in the flow of life and live in the moment with family and friends in this beautiful Montana we call home.
All the best and peace to you in this time of loss.
Tim and Ann Tilton
Helena.
Denise Tarr says
To the Bishop family,
My condolences for your loss.
Dr. Bishop will be fondly remembered by his coworkers as well as the thousands of patients he took care of at the VA. He always made time for his patients and co-workers with his caring and loving, healing words. He also would take the time to teach and explain the different types of surgeries he needed scheduled.
I have one particular fond memory of Dr Bishop when he loaned me his convertible over lunch one day to surprise a coworker to drive her and our friends for her birthday luncheon. This was extremely generous of Dr Bishop. My friends still talk about our luncheon to this day and how much they appreciated Dr Bishop lending us his car.
I consider it a great honor to have work for Dr Bishop at the VA. Although Dr. Bishop has physically passed on his kindness will continue to live on with those of us who were fortunate to have known him.
Melissa and Jeff Sherlock says
The world isn’t quite the same without Don Bishop. We remember him as a man who loved his family, the Cal Golden Bears and whatever dog called his house home. Once we floated the Smith River with Don, Joan and some other folks. Don amazed us all by calling a chickadee into camp almost every day. Peace to his family.
Keith zkeller says
Fond memories of river trips, baseball games and skiing? Condolences to the whole family.
Roy Moreno says
I first met Dr Bishop in his Orthopedic office he and Dr Carpenter tended to my girlfriend Pattie I would see him at the Helena Phillies games my deepest condolences to his family
Lynn Worsech says
I used to work for Dr. Bishop at the Orthopedic Office. We would have so much fun in the office when he was there, always wondering if he was going to be buying wine from the huderites. Going out to the VA and visiting him after work hours and bringing a bottle of wine. So many laughs and memories. My deepest condolences to the family.
Eileen Burgess Watson says
Sending heartfelt condolences to Joan and all the kids… Don was a dear friend of my dads (Dr Jack Burgess) and mom, Donna Kelly Burgess, too. Don, along with my dad and Dr. Bill Ballinger became the 3 B’s when they all joined the Army Reserves together.. I’m sure there are some stories from that time! Our parents shared many fun times with the Bishops at Placid Lake, sailing and cross country skiing. Don and Joan have been such good friends to my mom since our dad passed in 2003, visiting, writing cards, and often taking her out to dinner. Don will be so missed by so many.
Don Pratt says
To Joan and Family Sorry sorry to hear of Don’s passing Have so many fond memories of basketball ,fun parties and a good friend. He will be missed by many. If there is any thing I can do plese call on me
Becky Albertson says
Our condolences to the Bishop family. We were lucky to meet Don on a few occasions through Matt- and his kindness and wisdom shined brightly. He and Joan raised a beautiful family ♥️
Becky, Jason, Solveig & Espen
Cindy McGinnis says
I never had the privilege to meet Dr. Bishop but in the few months that I have known and worked with Matt, I got to hear of his character. When Matt talked to him about my torn meniscus just a couple of weeks ago, he made a point to send him with an old book for me to read on the subject, even in his advanced declining health. That touched my heart and spoke loudly of his character. What a loss for the family and community. Rest in peace, Dr. Bishop. 🙏🏻
Gretchen Stenson says
The Bishops were our neighbors and friends for most of my childhood so, as memories flood back it is difficult to choose a favorite. I would definitely say the “Birds, Bishops, & Basmussens” gatherings standout fondly. Also, Vi Meyer’s’ production of “Hilo Hattie” starring the 3 Bird girls (as we were dubbed), King Colin, Sara, & Matty, and Lori, Lisa, & Erin Rasmussen, created lifelong memories/embarrassing video for us all!
Don was always genuinely interested in whatever you were doing and would sound impressed by small accomplishments. Don and my dad both were gifted mentors and knew the power of encouragement.
To Joan, Colin, Sara, Matt and family, my heart hurts for you because I know Don was a good man who loved you all deeply. My hope is that the plethora of wonderful memories might be of comfort.♥️
All my love to you, our extended family.
Gretchen Bird Stenson
Bob Tinnell and Kathryn Brennan says
Very nice to read about Dr. Bishop’s life and his lifelong affection and connection to Placid Lake. I’m sorry that we didn’t get to know him and his family at Placid Lake. May he Rest in Peace and may his family be comforted for his life.
Lee Janetski says
Don was one of the kindest and best neighbor anybody could ever want. We’ve had the cabin next to theirs for many years. You always had a great smile and had a good visit with him every time we would see each other. I would like to say that, I’m glad he lived such a good full life and looking back on his time here on earth, no regrets. Job well done! I know that he is with our Heavenly Father and because of our Savior, Jesus Christ, he will resurrect.
Ann Power Scherner says
I am saddened to hear of Don’s passing and my condolences and deepest sympathies to Joan and your family.
I first met Dr Bishop during my first PT internship- I was lucky to observe one of his surgeries and treat some
of his patients- he was so engaging and a great teacher. Then the Placid Lake memories -my Dad and Elaine so enjoyed spending time with the Bishops. He was always
so welcoming and fun and he will
be missed.
Frank Handwerk says
Martha and I have enjoyed getting to know Don and Barbara over the last 30 years at Placid Lake. They would be reading when we kayaked by. Don would frequently be out swimming on most days while Barbara read. The other part of the day they could be seen walking the ” loop”. We will miss them.
Pat Flinders says
RIP DR BISH! You will always be fondly remembered.
Harry Bennett says
Joan, Collin, Sara and Matt – my deepest condolences on the passing of Don. By every definition he was a great man and will be sorely missed. I look forward to seeing you all in Helena this summer to celebrate his life and legacy. I wish you all well during this difficult time.
Margaret Jenkins says
Dr. Bishop was a very outstanding human. Thanks for adding the adventure to the lives you touched.
Wayne Chamberlin says
Don Bishop was a outstanding gentleman (In the true meaning of the word) and I had the privilege and pleasure of being with Don a few times experiencing his graciousness as a host, along with his lovely wife Joan.
I worked with Don in the operating room at Saint Peter’s Hospital and his surgical skills, his sense of humor and calm demeanor made every OR experience an enjoyable one. He was a tribute to orthopedic surgery in Helena.
My sympathies to his immediate family. Joan is a lady of great dignity, and their three children are wonderful people. Don will be missed by so many.
Mike Griffith says
Broadway could never cast a group to match the “Bishop Family”. Sixty years ago(!), Helena (at the southwest corner of Monroe and Stuart) unknowingly gained , and was fortunate to hold onto, a remarkable five member troupe. They demonstrate the enviable concept of grace – true friendship and devotion.
“Bishop here”, was the introduction I received throughout my contact with Don. His warm, unassuming manner and gentle grin, were his hallmarks. While his journey has reached an end – Don’s memories will continue on. As well as numerous associated memories with the entire troupe.
Joan, Sarah, Colin and Matt – Judy, Lani and Mike join me in sharing our utmost condolences.
John and Gwynn Mundinger says
Don and his family have been valued members of the Helena community. We were served by Don as a physician, Joan as a leader of a book club, and their daughter, Sara, at Touchmark during the residency of a family member. Thank you kindly. Our deep sympathy to the family.
Ron Lee says
Don was a friend who will be dearly missed. He was a regular, along with three others of us, in a jolly group that met every Wednesday afternoon at the Blackfoot Brewery. That gathering went on for quite few years, and produced many a good story and many rich memories . Don and I also shared the same dates of high school and college graduation (1955 and 1959) and we were true contemporaries. We also had in common the joys, the challenges, and the epic stories of rowing in our college (or in my case graduate school) years. I will treasure the memories of my friendship with him.
Doris Copenhaver says
So very sorry to hear a Don’s Passing. I surely remember the time spent at their house and in their yard next to Carolyn and Phil bird. He will surely be missed . Condolences to the family. He was a fine man And we had so much fun joking back-and-forth.
Kurt says
This is Kurt from Milton Bishop side of Family, sorry to receive word of Dons Death and so sorry for your loss, may he Rest In Peace. God Bless
Sherry Hall says
My deepest sympathies to Dr. Bishop’s family & friends. Rest in peace Dr Bishop. I first met Dr. Bishop in the ER after a serious car wreck. Dr. Bishop saved my leg performing 4 surgeries. He was so kind especially since I had no health insurance, he even took time to give me PT exercises to do at home as I couldn’t afford to go to physical therapy. He told me not to worry about how long it took to pay my bill & I know he charged way less than he could have. I made sure I paid him off 1st as no other provider showed that kind of compassion. He never knew how much his kindness truly meant to me.
Jon Moe says
I first got to know Don thru his connection with the Helena Phillies back in the late 70’s and early ’80s. In recent years, I would see him at the Blackfoot on Wednesdays when he was on his way to meet with his friends. Always a greeting with his infectious smile. Don was a kind gentleman. I miss our brief visits. RIP my friend.
David (Davy) Elliott says
Sorry to hear of Don’s passing. I worked with Don for several years at the VA Hospital and have fond memories. He made a special cast for my L thumb after I broke it playing basketball 2 weeks after my first heart attack. I don’t know if he ever told my PCP how I broke it. He once asked me to assist him with removing screws from a patient’s leg. We also shared a lot of ‘war stories” together, I was a Combat Wounded Navy Vet from Vietnam War. Missed him after I moved to open the Missoula CBOC.
Karen (Harvey)Ferguson says
Sara, I’m sorry to learn of your Dad’s passing. Sending prayers to you, Joan and family. I’m sure you have been a gift to them. BUT we so very much miss you in that last job!
Michele Rizza says
I was Dr. Bishop’s patient for sore knees… too much dancing and skiing. He was so kind and gentle… and so smart. Our families were at a couple of holiday parties together and his smile came so easily. Sending peace to Dr. bishops whole family and all those who feel his absence.